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November 20, 2008 at 5:06 am #29528helplessladMember
So, I met this one girl on retreat, and she’s extremely cute and funny, and she was definitely into me. The only problem is, I have a girlfriend who I love a lot. However, I can’t stop thinking about the other girl, and it’s starting to hurt inside. Is there anyway that I can just forget about the other girl?
November 21, 2008 at 9:53 pm #172237GandalfMemberFirst, you need to decide who you want. There are lots of cute, funny girls in the world, so that doesn’t really set the new girl apart.
If you love your girlfriend, do you want to stick with her? That should be your first decision. If you decide to stick with her, then stop thinking about the other one, and focus your energy on the one you’ve got.
If you decide you don’t want to stick with your girlfriend, then you can decide whether you want to pursue retreat-girl.
November 22, 2008 at 1:37 am #172238PhilipModeratorFirst of all, how old are you? If you’re in your teens, don’t fall in love too soon and too fast. You should be playing the field…make lots of contact with the opposite sex but on a purely platonic level. Yeah, it’s easier said than done, but trust me, it’ll do you good in the long run.
November 24, 2008 at 8:41 pm #172239animus216ParticipantMy friend, you are O so sad. Lovelorn buddy, there are other fish in the pond (I cannot say sea, because you obviously are oblivious to the sea thus you) and what a small, small pond you have yourself pathetically limited to. We know that women have a fairly limited attention span whereas men do not (or rather we’d like to think that way, particularly, it is quite the other way around)… Well I think I cannot fairly say that in your case. GET A GRIP!! There, that’s out. Honestly, you are a pathetic mope. The local mall is replete with members of the fair sex. Take your pick. Oh, and in case you havent gotten it yet, get over it. I may sound harsh, but you need a reality check.
November 24, 2008 at 8:43 pm #172240animus216ParticipantOh, PS
unless you have slept with her, then you don’t really NEED to remember her. I hate to sound callous, but she is just another trick on the block
(And O, how I hope SHE is reading this….) -
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