Are you in the right forum?? Perhaps you should post this question in the Trillian Forum for help with this question.
Also, you never stated that you were using Trillian in your original post, so its hard to help you out. I had assumed you were using msn messenger since this is the msn messenger board.
I dont know why games came up in Brians post or how he managed to know you were using Trillian? Very strange, I must have missed something somewhere?