I have met a few people from the net. One even moved interstate to be with me. I thought i loved him and vice versa. But it all went to hell, as he turned out to be an alcoholic and a woman basher. Yes i found out the hard way and found it hard to trust again after that. Eventually i myself moved away, to another country even for 6 months. Then found i missed home too much so returned. I did not set out to meet anyone new, just concentrated on sorting out my life. But, nevertheless, a few months later, someone comes into my regular chatroom and we start to chat and gradually become friends. After about 2 weeks, he asks me out. I think, ok last chance. So i take up the offer. He comes to pick me up, and i tell you, first time i look at him,my heart jumps and i take a sharp breath. I felt so at ease with him. At the end of the night, we kiss and say goodnight, and never such a good night have i had till then. From then on, every spare day we have, we spend together. I have been myself all this time, both online and off, as has he. Why be anything else? It is you that interests them, not someone you arent. 🙂 Be true to yourself, so you can be true to others. Would you want someone to lie to you?
“Love in its wisdom is the ultimate grace. To drown in it’s pool of desire, is the perfect fall”