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May 19, 2003 at 9:45 pm #13344
netsavvy
MemberA Little story to let us know where we stand….
I was parked in front of the mall wiping off my car. I had just come from the car wash and was waiting for my wife to get out of work. Coming my way from across the parking lot was what society would consider a bum. From the looks of him, he had no car, no home, no clean clothes, and no money. There are times when you feel generous but there are other times that you just don’t want to be bothered. This was one of those “don’t want to be bothered times.”“I hope he doesn’t ask me for any money,” I thought.
He didn’t. He came and sat on the curb in front of the bus stop but he didn’t look like he could have enough money to even ride the bus. After a few minutes he spoke. “That’s a very pretty car,” he said. He was ragged but he had an air of dignity around him. His scraggly blond beard keep more than his face warm. I said, “thanks,” and continued wiping off my car. He sat there quietly as I worked. The expected plea for money never came.
As the silence between us widened something inside said, “ask him if he needs any help.” I was sure that he would say “yes” but I held true to the inner voice.
“Do you need any help?” I asked.He answered in three simple but profound words that I shall never forget. We often look for wisdom in great men and women. We expect it from those of higher learning and accomplishments. I expected nothing but an
outstretched grimy hand. He spoke the three words that shook me.“Don’t we all?” he said.
I was feeling high and mighty, successful and important, above a bum in the street, until those three words hit me like a twelve gauge shotgun.
Don’t we all?
I needed help. Maybe not for bus fare or a place to sleep, but I needed help. I reached in my wallet and gave him not only enough for bus fare, but enough to get a warm meal and shelter for the day. Those three little words still ring true. No matter how much you have, no matter how much you have accomplished, you need help too. No matter how little you have, no matter how loaded you are with problems, even without money or a place to sleep, you can give help. Even if it’s just a compliment, you can give that. You never know when you may see someone that appears to have it all. They are waiting on you to give them what they don’t have. A different
perspective on life, a glimpse at something beautiful, a respite from daily chaos, that only you through a torn world can see.Maybe the man was just a homeless stranger wandering the streets. Maybe
he was more than that.May 20, 2003 at 3:11 am #96224darkjedi
MemberHmmm um ok, a smart bum? Differnet then the damn bums around here then.
May 25, 2003 at 5:45 am #96219Anna
ParticipantThankyou for the insight netsavvy – exactly what a I needed while in an ubervainandfullofmyself mood. 🙂
May 25, 2003 at 8:07 pm #96222OctoberTheHottie
MemberI think that is a cool story, it sounds like something out of a movie, it is pretty amazing that happened in real life. DarkJedi, you must live in atlanta too, lol. I don’t forsee that ever happening here, they all limp up to you, explaining how they have AIDS, and i’m sure they do, but if there weren’t a million other dignity-less, i’m such a victim, beggers already, maybe more of them could get help, oh well, i guess my change will suffice…… what a vicious cycle we are all a part of
May 26, 2003 at 12:57 am #96218Anna
ParticipantQuote:quote:they all limp up to you, explaining how they have AIDSHow does that defy their intellect in any way? Like netsavvy pointed out – we all need help. For all you know – that could be me limping up to you explainging how I have AIDS.
May 26, 2003 at 7:36 am #96221OctoberTheHottie
Memberi wasn’t trying to be mean, it just made me think that it was cool that the one guy was not begging but held his head up high and got more respect when most i have encountered make it seem like they depend on everyone else for their livelyhood and expect it from us, but i wasn’t focusing on the point, we all do need help.
May 27, 2003 at 3:54 am #96223darkjedi
Memberhehe nope i dont live in atlanta octoberthehottie hehe, im in california 😀 where sometimes the bums will sue people and actually beable to win. Ahhh love to live in the sue happy state.
May 27, 2003 at 6:28 am #96220OctoberTheHottie
MemberOMG, that is crazy, lol oh well, i guess it just makes our world more colorful, or something….. ??
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