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May 23, 2005 at 8:22 pm #122229
Crazy Penguin
Memberyou have a choice over the decisions you make with your relationships, has he ever tried dating a girl? probably not cause he’s made up in his mind that he’s gay and that nothing can change that
no the fact that made up his mind was that he has never been attracted to women in that way, and was attracted to men… have you ever deliberatly made the choice to date someone you didn’t feel attracted to? I doubt it, so why should he?
and the bible states that marriage and relationships were meant to be for a man and woman
Care to give me chapter and verse on that? From what I recall it says no such thing. it might say that marriage are meant to be only between man and a woman, but relationships? nope.
if it wasnt meant for man and woman, why create Eve?
I never said it wasn’t meant for man and woman, women are necessary for reproductive purposes, but that is no reason why a man and a man, or a woman and a woman cannot have a relationship, it’s perfectly reasonable, just because no children can result is no reason why it shouldn’t occur.
homosexuality is a sin, and thats all it is, its not genetics, its a choice you make
And where exactly does your expertise on this subject come from that you can make such a broad and sweeping statement? Are you an expert on genetics? Do you have an indepth knowledge of the homosexual psyche?
I highly doubt it.
May 23, 2005 at 10:55 pm #122214RabidKitten
ParticipantAlright, well here we go. *cracks her knuckles and tries to put the restraints on*
Homosexuality:
As most of you know already, I live in a house with a gay couple. I’m a strong advocate of the GLCS (Gay Lesbian Community Services) and the GLBTSA (Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual, Transgendered, Straight Alliance). I myself am also bisexual *rolls her eyes* not like the trendy folks, I swear. The fact that I’ve never had a girlfriend and am a monogomous person just goes to show that much. Heck, I never knew it was unusual to be attracted to both genders until someone brought it to my attention in the 10th grade. I just always was *shrug*Alright, here’s a tidbit for you…I have yet to hear a non religious argument as to why homosexuality is “wrong”. Religions, folks, are fallible. They are the word of God/Allah/Goddess/Gods passed down -through man-. And really, do you know how many -versions- of the bible there are? So many with so many differences, such as, one version goes and calls Mary a “Young Woman” not a “Virgin”. Another says that “Thou shalt not suffer evil to live” and another says “Thou shalt not suffer a witch to live”. Pretty big difference, folks. Alright, you believe what you believe, but really, lets sway away from the corrupt nature of a book that has been changed over a dozen times and stick to something logical.
Also, for the religious folks…if a person is good…whole heartedly good, a pure soul doing what they believe is right, doing what they find in their heart and not swaying any way the wind turns…then why would this merciful being, who -created- them cast them down into the depths of hell for all eternity, just for being a person who had morals and values and followed them with a pure heart? Really…I don’t buy it.
Secondly, there was an article in “Time” magazine I read at the laundromat. A study in the Karolinska Institute in Sweden was done on people’s reaction to Pheremones. Pheremones are chemicals that each gender has, a scent that we no longer smell exactly, but it’s been proven that the part of our brains that govern our sexual arousal, the hypothalamus, can recognize the chemicals and hormones in the Pheremones and respond accordingly.
“The experiment was elegantly simple. Just as they had in a series of tests in 2001, the Swedish scientists isolated two substances suspected of being human pheromones–an estrogent-like chemical distilled from a womans urine, and a testosterone-related chemical derived from male swear. Using both MRI and PET scans, the researchers found that women registered the female pheromone in the smell-processing part of the brain. But when sniffing the male pheromones, their hypothalamuses lit up as well. In men, the results were exactly the opposite.
All that had been shown before. What was new in the recent experiments was the inclusion of gay men. “Gay men are a great control group for this kind of study”, says Hamer, “Because they’re pretty much the same as straight men except for that one factor.” Sur eenough, when the scientists ran the experiment this time, the results were striking: When gay men were exposed to male pheromones, their hypothalamuses lit up just like a woman’s. Female hormones did nothing for them.” (Time Magazine, May 23, 2005. Pg 61 “The Scent of a Man”. Lemonick, Michael D.)Proving that there is some biological backing to homosexuality. We can’t smell these scents, but they are registered in our brains. Of course, the only thing this doesn’t show is that there isn’t some backing towards homosexuality in a learned state when younger…which is why there will be a study with children and phereomones as well as lesbians and bisexuals. But…once grown, this shows that there is, at the -very least- some kind of biological backing.
One of my roomates, Steven, came from a very very strict baptist family. So strict that “pre marital dancing” wasn’t allowed. So when he told his family he was gay at 13, he was sent to treatment, naturally. He tried and tried for 5 years to be straight. He had girlfriend, he went to therepy for it, he went to “degayification” camps, went to bible camp, study, everything…but it was empty for him. He -wanted- to be straight for himself and his families sake…but it was hallow, he said to me that it was like suppressing who he really was, hiding a part of his very being. After 5 years, he just accepted who he was, and after being thrown out on his butt, he learned to live with it.
Really…unless someone loves the idea of being ridiculed, beaten, hurt, disowned and thrown out…the ‘choice’ of being gay seems like a silly one. In my mind, if it was a choice, unless a person loved being treated like dirt and a disease by a majority of people, it would be a choice a lot of people wouldn’t make.
Well, what about those degayification camps that succeed? They turn people straight again, right? There have been a number of studies and notes written by psychologists saying that during psychoannalysis of these people who have undergone these kinds of treatments are the most warped, suppressed, unhappy and mentally emotionally scarred people alive today. *shrug*
People say it is ‘unnatural’ to have homosexuality…Yet, homosexual relations happen in the animal kingdom too, you know. Yes, the only time it happens is when there is an overpopulated area of said animals…and I don’t know about you, but I would definately concider the earth overpopulated by people. So, how can it be ‘unnatural’ when it happens in -nature-? *quirk*
Really it’s sad to have to supress how you feel. Take your sexuality. What if people had a stigma against male-female relationships? How would you feel having to supress your urges to look at the opposite sex, pretend you’re something you’re not? Of course, that’s my outlook on it.
Any kind of love is alright…it’s your hate you should be looking after.
Abortion:
This is something that is not a case of right vs. wrong. That is part of it, but here is the catch…society has a stigma against teenaged mothers. In many states, cities, school districts, a pregnant student is forced into night school, tossed out completely, transfered to a school away from other children just because of societies outlook on pregnancy. That alone is the reason why a lot of teenagers go and get abortions, so they can still have an education.While we’re talking about teenagers, we’ve covered rape situations, but what about rape situations where it’s incest? Fathers, brothers, uncles, other realtives who have raped and got a family member pregnant? Just a curious question.
What about if the mother was on something while pregnant. A crack addict. Smoking. Cocain. Pot. Booze…something anything…what if she has AIDS…is it fair to have the child born with an addiction for the rest of it’s life? Or a disease?
Those are just idle questions I pose to people…here are my thoughts.
Abortion is going to continue whether it is legal or not. Right or Wrong, Legal or Illegal, it will continue. And really, would we rather have a bunch of illegal, unclean, disease wrought abortions going on, or something in a sterile environment where people are faced with new information on the process, know what’s going to happen, are given alternatives at the clinic, are educated on the process which is done safely and the woman is taken under for psychoanalys before and afterwards?
Let’s say it is illegal, just a what if. Well, a woman is pregnant…not even a teenager, a married woman. Her husband decides, no, he doesn’t want another child and he isn’t about to let the community see her pregnant and no baby. Well, he takes a coat hanger to her. He shoves her down the stairs. Something, anything to try and abort it and eventually kills the woman. Is that a success story? Not only have we now aborted the child, but we have killed a woman. But also, we’ve killed off whatever children that would have come from that woman in the future, when they were ready. We’ve aborted not just that prospective child, but the prospect of any other children that they would’ve had. Is that a wise decision? Well, wise or not, that was my grandmother. And that is what happens when the option is not there for a safe, legal way to go about it.
I don’t recall if this something that has come up yet, but what if the child is life threatening? What if there are complications. Gestational Diabetes, mental redardation, blood clots, ceserian section for the birth and even then the child could be unhealthy and die. When do we draw the line? What about eggs that are fertilized in a fallopian tube? Can we abort those? What about eggs that split in some strange manner and are going to be physically disabled and have to be taken care of their entire lives? I want to know when we draw the line for when it is ‘acceptable’.
A healthy child, a healthy woman. An unhealthy child, an unhealthy woman. A healthy child, an unhealthy woman. A healthy child, un unwilling woman…I mean really, when is that line drawn?
In my eyes, it is a womans choice. The child feeds from her, it is a kind of (mind the phrasing) leech off her body until it is born. It is part of her, a body, a form that is unable to live on its own without her. If you could take a fetus and take it from the womb and sit it outside on its own and let it sit there, no help from anyone else and it could breath on its own, pump its own blood, digest its own food, then yes, it is a separate entity, but until it can, it is part of the woman. As a matter of fact, if it weren’t for the placenta the child is born with, if the child is somehow disconnected from it, the womans immunce system kicks in and sees the fetus as a threat, a foriegn body and destroys it. The only thing that keeps the immunities from doing that is the placenta and the umbilical cord that attaches it.
The only reason why I don’t believe in partial birth abortions is because you should’ve made your decision by then. It’s simple procrastination and by then, a responsible person would’ve made a decision and followed through by then. And by then a child can be born prematurely and live on its own, so…yes…that and somehow I don’t find it too savory that they have to pry the childs head open, suck the brain out in order to collapse the skull and then remove the rest. Much more vicious in my twisted opinion.
I have to quote my mother here and say that to me, a seed is not a tree.
Animals:
Alright, well, this is rather easy to talk about. I don’t like eating much meat…*shrug* just doesn’t taste that great to me…but here’s the thing…if we were at this very moment to let all the cows and pigs and chickens in the world go, let them live their own lives, free…free as the wind blows *cues chimes* …they would destroy the land. No, I mean it. Cows are the dumbest, more domesticated, inbred animals ever. They eat so much and crap everywhere, indiscriminantly and have such masses that they would completely ruin the land. The same with chickens and pigs. They have become so inbred and domesticated that they do not know how to live without us.They would eat all the grass until they were sick and kill themselves, they would be picked off in the wild anyway and become extinct, they are stupid, dense, domestic and have no fighting skills to bare the wild. They are only alive because we breed them and take care of them. And really, since cows make crappy pets, what’s left than to eat them. Why not, it’s a great market, great cash crop, it keeps them alive and they bring smiles to thousands of gap toothed, corn eating, bug squashing, booger picking kids every day during the summer as burgers and hot dogs.
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May 24, 2005 at 5:21 am #122219Qwerty
Memberchickenkicker, you can’t actually refer to god in a proper debate. But since this is a discussion you can, keeping in mind it isnt a very valid argument unless your taking the bibly literally. And that doesn’t work. 😉
May 24, 2005 at 7:01 am #122250Reliable
MemberCrazy Penguin wrote:Really? How do you know? God created everything according to the bible, which would imply that homosexuality is all part of his divine plan would it not?Be careful there buddy, it is true that biblically speaking that God is the creator of everything. However, homosexuality is not a “thing” but an ACTION that someone chooses to participate in. God created good and He created evil. And He did not even introduce us to evil but ONLY good. What you must understand is that God did not create sins. Sins is your choose of manifesting evil. Thus, it is very clear that God is not the author of “homosexuality” which is biblically a sin.
Before I go any further, let me clarify that homosexuality is nothing more than a choice. A person chooses to be an homosexual. Yes, a person can be attracted to someone of the same sex and that is what you call “TEMPTATION,” being attracted to the same sex is not “homosexuality” nor does it makes anyone an homosexual. To be an homosexual, one has to choose to engage in a relationship with a person.
Let’s see what the bible has to say regarding homosexuality being a choice or not.
Romans 1:27-32 – For this cause God gave them up unto vile affections: for even their women did change the natural use into that which is against nature: And likewise also the men, leaving the natural use of the woman, burned in their lust one toward another; men with men working that which is unseemly, and receiving in themselves that recompence of their error which was meet. And even as they did not like to retain God in their knowledge, God gave them over to a reprobate mind, to do those things which are not convenient; Being filled with all unrighteousness, fornication, wickedness, covetousness, maliciousness; full of envy, murder, debate, deceit, malignity; whisperers, Backbiters, haters of God, despiteful, proud, boasters, inventors of evil things, disobedient to parents, Without understanding, covenantbreakers, without natural affection, implacable, unmerciful: Who knowing the judgment of God, that they which commit such things are worthy of death, not only do the same, but have pleasure in them that do them.
So it is very clear that homosexuality is not ONLY a choice but it is unatural.
Crazy Penguin wrote:This really annoys me, yes the bible mentions a couple of times that “sodomy” is not a good thing, but by my reading these mentions all appear in sections of the bible which most people discount in their entirety, ie the old testament. Now I can understand a jewish person using the bible as support for anti-homosexuality, even if i don’t agree with them, but a Christian?Let me restate that you said “most people.” Now let’s see what the Bible says.
2 Timothy 3:16 – All scripture is given by inspiration of God, and is profitable for doctrine, for reproof, for correction, for instruction in righteousness:
Joshua 1:8 – This book of the law shall not depart out of thy mouth; but thou shalt meditate therein day and night, that thou mayest observe to do according to all that is written therein: for then thou shalt make thy way prosperous, and then thou shalt have good success.
In addition to this, homosexuality is not only wrong from the Old Testament – But it is wrong in the New Testament as well – I have already posted some a passage about it from the new testament and I will post more. Take a look.
1 Corinthians 6:9-11 Know ye not that the unrighteous shall not inherit the kingdom of God? Be not deceived: neither fornicators, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor effeminate, nor abusers of themselves with mankind, 10 Nor thieves, nor covetous, nor drunkards, nor revilers, nor extortioners, shall inherit the kingdom of God. 11 And such were some of you: but ye are washed, but ye are sanctified, but ye are justified in the name of the Lord Jesus, and by the Spirit of our God.
In case verse 9 wasn’t clear – Here is the same verse from a different version.
Corinthians 6:9 – Do you not know that the wicked will not inherit the kingdom of God? Do not be deceived: Neither the sexually immoral nor idolaters nor adulterers nor male prostitutes nor homosexual offenders
1 Timothy 1:8-11 8 Now we know that the law is good, if any one uses it lawfully, 9 understanding this, that the law is not laid down for the just but for the lawless and disobedient, for the ungodly and sinners, for the unholy and profane, for murderers of fathers and murderers of mothers, for manslayers, 10 immoral persons, sodomites, kidnapers, liars, perjurers, and whatever else is contrary to sound doctrine, 11 in accordance with the glorious gospel of the blessed God with which I have been entrusted.
I can go on pasting more scriptures from the New Testament proving you that homosexuality is not an “old testament” thing but I believe those should be enough.
Crazy Penguin wrote:Let’s see the majority of christains flout nearly all the rules set out in the old testament, they eat non-kosher food, and generally ignore a whole set of prohibiions set out in the OT, which coincidenatlly generally occur almost next to prohibitions on homosexuality, which are wholeheartedly embraced, by many Christians, as it supports there views… now to me that shouts HYPOCRISY.Be careful, you need to separate three things when you are talking about the Old Testament, and those are: 1) Sins, 2) Symbols, 3) Traditions and Customs.
Most of the things in the Old Testament were traditions that were never a biblical principale that was ordained by God as a rule that we should follow. THey were ONLY Jewish Traditions. We also have things that are symbolic that we NO LONGER need to do because they have been revealed and they are NO LONGER required. For instance, if a man was leprous – He had to follow a certain step to become “clean.” Today, we do NOT need to follow this because the blood of Jesus Christ is powerful enough to purify us of all things. We had circumcision, this was symbolic to accepting Jesus’ sacrifice. The list goes on and on – But by all means, feel free to post some that you feel we are violating.
Lastly, we have sins – Sins remain sins no matter what. Except for meat because God especifically revealed to peter that eating meat was no longer a sin. But it will be a sin to YOU only if it is against your conscience. Otherwise, eat ANYTHING and EVERYTHING that is sold in the supermarket. The only restriction we have about food is food that are for idols.
Crazy Penguin wrote:Then lets look at the New Testament, which is the main text for Christainity, look at all the times Jesus teaches love and acceptance of others, claims those who are ill such as lepers are not sinful… and tell me whether the message of the bible is to condemn homosexuality as a sin or to accept that homosexuality is just one of those things, that some people are, and some people aren’t.You miss the whole meaning of love, can I claim that I love you while I see you pointing a knife into your heart and I say “I love you, just go ahead and kill yourself.” Love is not just a word, we need to manifest that love. Homosexuality being a sin, we need to manifest our love toward every homosexual by telling them that they need to repent. If I claim that I love the homosexuals and yet accept them in their sin then I clearly do not love them. Jesus loved us, He didn’t just claim that He loved us but He came and DIED four our sins and TOOK US AWAY from sins and showed us the way to righteousness.
Crazy Penguin wrote:So before you go around saying that the bible says homosexuality is a sin, follow the rest of the teachings in the bible.Quote me a scripture that shows you where any bible charater accepted someone in a sin. Jesus never did, He opened the doors to sinners and see what happened; they REPENTED.
Crazy Penguin wrote:One of my best friends is gay, he is a devout catholic, perhaps the most devout I have ever met, and believes homosexuality to be wrong… yet he is still gay. Now if he had a choice about whether he was homosexual or not, i know for sure that he would choose to not be homosexual, but he can’t help the fact that he is homosexual.. now to me that suggests that there is no “choice” about whether being homosexual or not, it’s just something that happens.First and foremost, Christianity is about what one “chooses” to do. It is about what one chooses to do according to God’s will. There is no such thing as “Christian Homosexual” – it is either you are Christian or homosexual. You can’t be both at the same time. You can’t use your friend’s decision to be disobedient to God’s words as a way to justify homosexuality. Judge homosexuality according to God’s words and not according to what “christians” choose to do. Let me show you a similar example with a “christian” gay in the bible.
1 Corinthians 5:1-5 It is actually reported that there is immorality among you, and of a kind that is not found even among pagans; for a man is living with his father’s wife. 2 And you are arrogant! Ought you not rather to mourn? Let him who has done this be removed from among you. 3 For though absent in body I am present in spirit, and as if present, I have already pronounced judgment 4 in the name of the Lord Jesus on the man who has done such a thing. When you are assembled, and my spirit is present, with the power of our Lord Jesus, 5 you are to deliver this man to Satan for the destruction of the flesh, that his spirit may be saved in the day of the Lord Jesus.
What’s happening here? Paul was absent and while he was away, there was someone who was practicing homosexuality/immorality in the church. The leaders just sat there and said nothing. When Paul came back he said that this man should be remove among you and deliver unto satan for the destruction of the flesh. This is the case of someone who chooses to be gay and has no intention of leaving the sin. So this person should be delievered to satan; before you misunderstand this passage, let me explain to you what it means. It simply means that let this person go unto the hands of satan so that he can repent so that his soul can be saved at the end. This is nothing new, God has turned away from Israel (from the OT) and delivered them unto satan for their own good. When Israel realized that they were losing wars and famine took place and all sort of bad things happening to them, they repented.
Your friend needs to acknowledge the love of God and turn away from homosexuality. Now, I am not claiming that this is an easy task but through God all things is possible. Satan is too powerful to let him leave the sin on himself, but through God He can if he chooses to follow submits himself completely to God and resist the devil, he will overcome.
May 24, 2005 at 7:18 am #122251Reliable
MemberCrazy Penguin wrote:no the fact that made up his mind was that he has never been attracted to women in that way, and was attracted to men… have you ever deliberatly made the choice to date someone you didn’t feel attracted to? I doubt it, so why should he?First and foremost, if man followed God’s will there wouldn’t be much confusion on this issue. As for the answer to your question of “why should he?” It is simple, because homosexuality is an abomination of the word of God. He can remain single if He does not find any girl that he is attracted to. NOTICE: The heterosexual do not become homosexual because He does not find someone he is attracted to – He waits or he be single.
Crazy Penguin wrote:Care to give me chapter and verse on that? From what I recall it says no such thing. it might say that marriage are meant to be only between man and a woman, but relationships? nope.A marriage is a relationship, so therefore a relationship is between man and woman. Keeping in mind that we are talking romantically speaking.
Crazy Penguin wrote:I never said it wasn’t meant for man and woman, women are necessary for reproductive purposes, but that is no reason why a man and a man, or a woman and a woman cannot have a relationship, it’s perfectly reasonable, just because no children can result is no reason why it shouldn’t occur.You contradict yourself in that paragraph. You admit that it is meant for man and woman then you go on to say that it is not a reason why it can’t be man and man. It is indeed a reason because it is MEANT to be for man and woman and not man and man. In addition to this, it is unatural and immoral as I have showed you on my previous post.
Crazy Penguin wrote:And where exactly does your expertise on this subject come from that you can make such a broad and sweeping statement? Are you an expert on genetics? Do you have an indepth knowledge of the homosexual psyche?No man has indepth knowledge of the “homosexual psyche.” Man can only conclude what they observe and think is “knowledge.” However, God is the author of knowledge and He knows all. Man is limited in knowledge to know “man.” Therefore, knowledge can be obtained ONLY through God. Clearly, we found our knowledge in Christ through the Holy Spirit.
John 14:26 – But the Comforter, which is the Holy Ghost, whom the Father will send in my name, he shall teach you all things, and bring all things to your remembrance, whatsoever I have said unto you.
Qwerty wrote:chickenkicker, you can’t actually refer to god in a proper debate. But since this is a discussion you can, keeping in mind it isnt a very valid argument unless your taking the bibly literally. And that doesn’t work.I disagree, God is the beginning, the all knowing, and the end. Therefore, He is the one to use in a proper debate because in HIM we have the answers and some answers are NOT revealed to us because our knowledge is limited. Now, should you choose to ignore Him is your choise, though I would strongly advise you against that.
May 24, 2005 at 9:11 am #122220Qwerty
MemberReliable wrote:I disagree, God is the beginning, the all knowing, and the end. Therefore, He is the one to use in a proper debate because in HIM we have the answers and some answers are NOT revealed to us because our knowledge is limited. Now, should you choose to ignore Him is your choise, though I would strongly advise you against that.Ahh yes, but then we have a problem don’t we.Let’s asume he exists, and i’m ignorent because i’m not looking for answers in something I have never seen etc etc…
Whose to say he is the right god? This is where we have a problem mate, what if i choose to believe in another god. Say… ganesh? Is he too, not a god or does he not count? If so, why not? Theres as much evidence to say he exists then to say your God exists. See the problem in the situation?
Then, besides from that, you have to agree with what I said on not being able to take the bible literally. It can’t be done unless you really are blinded by the light of something you have never seen. Are you familiar with the Scopes trail at all?
My theory on religion is this;
A long time ago before microscopes and stuff we have people. Now these people want to know things like why the sky is blue, why do we have mountains etc. Someone, I don’t know who, but phehraps a respected member of society dicided there were several gods and they all did their little things.
This is true to some extent of all civilizations. The egyptians, the aztecs, the greeks, the romans, incas, norse, etc. The premise was all the same with each one. Several gods and they all have their own abilities.
Then, for reasons we know or can asume, Constintine (i think?) stops the roman slaughter of christains (just another race/religion who belive in one god instead of many). The romans adopt this school of thought and christianity becomes a major religion of the world. At the same time we have seperate processes occouring all aorudn the world resulting in all different gods and scriptures. They are all the same though, they have never been seen and they have the answers to all uncertaintits.
Hundred and hundreds of years later, technology has developed somehwat. Some things found out confliclt what the chuch has previously said. eg: Galilio. Because chuch is respected after asuming so much power over the years. In england for instacne, galilio is locked up. Turns out he was right
Another example is darwin. his finsings conflict the chuch and he becomes an outkast. But then other intelects see darwin is right. The chuch and science must now co-exist.
Now through time, more descrepincies have come to light throug science. Each time there is some loophole that discredits this proof that the bible is a joke.
The point is, “religion is the opium of the people”. It’s an asnwer when we don’t have the answers. The irony is, the bible was written by mere men. They don’t have the answers. The bible doesnt have the answers. It is just fool of values and attutudes that were popular in society 2000 years ago. Get with the times.
May 24, 2005 at 11:54 am #122230Crazy Penguin
MemberBe careful there buddy, it is true that biblically speaking that God is the creator of everything. However, homosexuality is not a “thing” but an ACTION that someone chooses to participate in. God created good and He created evil. And He did not even introduce us to evil but ONLY good. What you must understand is that God did not create sins. Sins is your choose of manifesting evil.
God is the creator of everything correct? And seeing as there is increasing evidence that homosexuality has a biological basis, which God created, so by my eyes god created homosexual desire…
Before I go any further, let me clarify that homosexuality is nothing more than a choice. A person chooses to be an homosexual. Yes, a person can be attracted to someone of the same sex and that is what you call “TEMPTATION,” being attracted to the same sex is not “homosexuality” nor does it makes anyone an homosexual. To be an homosexual, one has to choose to engage in a relationship with a person.
So God is being deliberatly mean and excluding a siginificant percentage of the human race from ever having meaningful sexual relationships, which as i recall was his “gift” to us? Seems slightly off for an ever-loving God.
Let’s see what the bible has to say regarding homosexuality being a choice or not.
Romans 1:27-32 – For this cause God gave them up unto vile affections: for even their women did change the natural use into that which is against nature: And likewise also the men, leaving the natural use of the woman, burned in their lust one toward another; men with men working that which is unseemly, and receiving in themselves that recompence of their error which was meet. And even as they did not like to retain God in their knowledge, God gave them over to a reprobate mind, to do those things which are not convenient; Being filled with all unrighteousness, fornication, wickedness, covetousness, maliciousness; full of envy, murder, debate, deceit, malignity; whisperers, Backbiters, haters of God, despiteful, proud, boasters, inventors of evil things, disobedient to parents, Without understanding, covenantbreakers, without natural affection, implacable, unmerciful: Who knowing the judgment of God, that they which commit such things are worthy of death, not only do the same, but have pleasure in them that do them.
Well you are quoting Paul there, who in my opinion was a bigoted idiot who hijacked Christ’s teachings and who I strongly disagreee with.
And incidentally on the subject of paul…. if you follow his teachings you would not be here for:
Romans 16:17 Now I beseech you, brethren, mark them which cause divisions and offences contrary to the doctrine which ye have learned; and avoid them.
Romans 16:18 For they that are such serve not our Lord Jesus Christ, but their own belly; and by good words and fair speeches deceive the hearts of the simple.
So there he’s told you to avoid those who might cause you to quetsion your faith, and my beliefs are certainly anti-doctrinal, so clearly if you follow Paul you shouldn’t be here.
But my anti-paul bias is by the by.
If you look at Jesus’s teachings, who is the founder of the faith, well he never says a word against homosexuality, and he had plenty of oppurtunities too seeing as homosexuality was rife among the romans. Paul however was very damning of homosexuality… yet Paul was mortal, he was not the word of God, he had his own beliefs and predjudices, and evidently one of these was deep predjudice agaisnt homosexuality, and due to his prominent role in the early Christian church this leeked into Christian teaching. So you have to ask yourself do you take the words of Paul over that of Christ?
I can go on pasting more scriptures from the New Testament proving you that homosexuality is not an “old testament” thing but I believe those should be enough.
Give me a quote from Jesus which condemns homosexuality, all the quotes you have given come from mortals, who are by nature extremely fallible, and will inevitably have there own predjudices which interfere with there message.
For example Timothy claims that homosexulaity is wrong “and whatever else is contrary to sound doctrine, 11 in accordance with the glorious gospel of the blessed God with which I have been entrusted” yet the gospel is the word of Christ, and Christ does not condemn homosexuality, so where does this condemnation of homosexulaity come from? Paul and the OT, not from Christ the living word of God.
Lastly, we have sins – Sins remain sins no matter what. Except for meat because God especifically revealed to peter that eating meat was no longer a sin. But it will be a sin to YOU only if it is against your conscience.
So meat is an exception because of the opinion of one man, who was not the Christ, now to me that is a slippery slope which suggests a whole lot of things can be discounted…
Deuteronomy, chapter 25 v 11: “If two men are fighting and the wife of one goes to help her husband by grabbing the testicles of his assailant, you must cut off her hand. Show her no pity.”
Now in my view that isn’t a symbol, or a tradition and custom, thats a sin, and the punishment which should be acted on for doing said sin, and well i don’t see that happening very often…
Ok it’s a silly example, but still valid, theres a lot of things from the bible whch are ignored and placed under one of the categories you have said, now I can accept it if you acknowledge all or none of the OT, but inbetweens just lay the whole thing open to ridicule, ignoring some things and not others, it’s not a buffet…
You miss the whole meaning of love, can I claim that I love you while I see you pointing a knife into your heart and I say “I love you, just go ahead and kill yourself.” Love is not just a word, we need to manifest that love. Homosexuality being a sin, we need to manifest our love toward every homosexual by telling them that they need to repent. If I claim that I love the homosexuals and yet accept them in their sin then I clearly do not love them. Jesus loved us, He didn’t just claim that He loved us but He came and DIED four our sins and TOOK US AWAY from sins and showed us the way to righteousness.
Ok lets look at the whole love thing again let’s view homosexuals as say lepers (not saying homosexuality is a disease, just something that some people have, and some people don’t), they have an illness/desire which is not accepted by many people, lepers were outcasts, isolated for society for something which was not their fault, they were deemed to be sinners because of this, Jesus however accpeted them as they were, as human, not sinners but just ordinary people, yes he cured them, but before this he accepted them as non-sinners who just happened to be different.
So now tell me with all honesty that Jesus, when confronted with a homosexual, who has a biological condition which results in them being different would not tell them that they were not sinners and accept them as they were.
You admit that it is meant for man and woman
As it is meant for man and man, and woman and woman
No man has indepth knowledge of the “homosexual psyche.”
Would not a homosexual ahve an indepth knowledge of his psyche?
However, God is the author of knowledge and He knows all. Man is limited in knowledge to know “man.” Therefore, knowledge can be obtained ONLY through God.
Wooo… that’s a sweeping statement, so your saying that science should all be discounted… because it’s not from god, and in fact naything which does nto come directly from god is wrong? But by that definition the majority of the bible and all the quptes you have layed out are also incorrect as they do not come form God, but from people interpreting God’s message which are too different things.
In fact the only things whcih come direct from God… would be the ten commandments, as god wrote them himself, and teh word of Jesus, as he is God… everything else doe snot ocme direct from God, but through man and hence is inherently flawed.
So any condemnation of homosexuals in the bible does not come from God directly, but thorugh man, and so by your arguement is flawed and probably wrong.
Oh and incidentally this amused me querty…
A long time ago before microscopes
so what about 100 years ago? :p
May 24, 2005 at 12:54 pm #122208Tigerblade
ParticipantI’m not going to start quoting scripture in defense of anything (I’m in agreement with Reliable) but this is what I have to say, briefly.
Any scripture can be taken out of context quite easily. Remove a few verses from the surrounding text and you can manipulate it to mean whatever you like in support of your argument. When you look at the verses and the bible as a whole, it is quite clearly against sins in general (which i think is obvious) and it counts homosexuality as a sin.
Anyone who has been saying “there is increasing evidence showing homosexuality is biologically based” hasn’t been keeping up with all the news. there’s just as much evidence showing it’s a choice. it’s split pretty evenly right down the middle. some research will come out claiming they’ve found substantial evidence of genetic influence, then another study with credentials that are just as reliable and worthy states that choice has a great deal of influence. No one can agree on one answer.
As for Jesus being opening and welcoming of everyone, yes. He was. BUT there’s a catch to that statement. He loved the people, NOT their sins. “Love the sinner, not the sin.” That is a huge difference.Quote:Well you are quoting Paul there, who in my opinion was a bigoted idiot who hijacked Christ’s teachings and who I strongly disagreee with.and that’s your opinion. you’re perfectly entitled to having your own opinion about anything, but it doesnt mean you’re right. Keep that in mind.
Quote:So there he’s told you to avoid those who might cause you to quetsion your faith, and my beliefs are certainly anti-doctrinal, so clearly if you follow Paul you shouldn’t be here.The Bible also says to work to convince those people of the right way. It doesn’t mean to avoid them entirely, that’s generally impossible. If people would use some common sense when “interpreting” these things, that would rather apparent, i’d think.
May 24, 2005 at 1:43 pm #122231Crazy Penguin
MemberAny scripture can be taken out of context quite easily
and I agree, i didn’t particularly feel that quoting scripture would resolve the arguement, but since reliable started it i thought id give him a few scripture quotes back to show how easily different scriptures can show different things. Since scripture can be so easily distorted I don’t see how it can be used to support the arguement against homosexuality.
Anyone who has been saying “there is increasing evidence showing homosexuality is biologically based” hasn’t been keeping up with all the news. there’s just as much evidence showing it’s a choice. it’s split pretty evenly right down the middle. some research will come out claiming they’ve found substantial evidence of genetic influence, then another study with credentials that are just as reliable and worthy states that choice has a great deal of influence. No one can agree on one answer.
So no-one can say straight out, it’s a choice and hence a sin, i was arguing the possible biological basis to refute those who are flat out of the opinion it’s a choice.
The Bible also says to work to convince those people of the right way. It doesn’t mean to avoid them entirely, that’s generally impossible. If people would use some common sense when “interpreting” these things, that would rather apparent, i’d think.
Yes the bible as a whole does say that, but Paul in the bible says differently. So theres a major contridiction right there, which in my mind suggests using quotes from Paul to justify homosexuality as a sin is fairly hypocritical.
Personally i’d like to see an arguement against homosexuality which does not rely on biblical text, or dubious biblical authority. Most of the other “sins” in the bible can generally be arrived at by logical thought as osmething which people really shouldn’t do, but i have difficulty finding a logical basis for homosexuality.
May 24, 2005 at 2:33 pm #122252Reliable
MemberCrazy Penguin wrote:God is the creator of everything correct? And seeing as there is increasing evidence that homosexuality has a biological basis, which God created, so by my eyes god created homosexual desire…I have already explained to you the fact that God created everything does not include sins. Using the same argument is not a good way of keeping a good conversation.
Crazy Penguin wrote:So God is being deliberatly mean and excluding a siginificant percentage of the human race from ever having meaningful sexual relationships, which as i recall was his “gift” to us? Seems slightly off for an ever-loving God.God did not just create sex, he created it and He layed out the condition for sex. He tells you that is only between a man and a woman within a marriage bond. And you see the verity of His guideliness for sex by it’s manifestation through children. Now, this is what I don’t get. God created sex and He gave you its condition and now you want to tell God How He should do or have done his job. You need to accept the fact that God is omniscient and omnipotent, if He says that sex is within marriage bond ONLY, He knows why and we should follow His will. However, He indeed give you free will to be obidient or to be rebelious.
Crazy Penguin wrote:Well you are quoting Paul there, who in my opinion was a bigoted idiot who hijacked Christ’s teachings and who I strongly disagreee with.
Now if you look at Jesus’s teachings, who is the founder of the faith, well he never says a word against homosexuality, and he had plenty of oppurtunities too seeing as homosexuality was rife among the romans. Paul however was very damning of homosexuality… yet Paul was mortal, he was not the word of God, he had his own beliefs and predjudices, and evidently one of these was deep predjudice agaisnt homosexuality, and due to his prominent role in the early Christian church this leeked into Christian teaching. So you have to ask yourself do you take the words of Paul over that of Christ?Give me a quote from Jesus which condemns homosexuality, all the quotes you have given come from mortals, who are by nature extremely fallible, and will inevitably have there own predjudices which interfere with there message.
For example Timothy claims that homosexulaity is wrong “and whatever else is contrary to sound doctrine, 11 in accordance with the glorious gospel of the blessed God with which I have been entrusted” yet the gospel is the word of Christ, and Christ does not condemn homosexuality, so where does this condemnation of homosexulaity come from? Paul and the OT, not from Christ the living word of God.
So you went from rejecting the old testament to claiming that we should give you verses from the New Testament as Christians. Now that we have given you verses from the New Testament, you claim that they are Paul’s and not Christ’s – give you verses from Jesus. I am curious as what you will be asking for next? Anyways, you asked for verses from Jesus Christ, here you go.
Matthew 15:19-20 – For out of the heart proceed evil thoughts, murders, adulteries, fornications, thefts, false witness, blasphemies: 20 These are the things which defile a man:
Matthew 19:9 – And I say unto you, Whosoever shall put away his wife, except it be for fornication, and shall marry another, committeth adultery: and whoso marrieth her which is put away doth commit adultery.
Christ indeed taught against homosexuality. Paul only expanded Christ’s teaching on an already known sin. He received God’s permission to write the word of God. By rejecting the OT, the part of the NT, I can see a pattern or clearly trying a way to escape the truth that you already know is the truth. But like I have said before, you have free will. But keeping mind that rejecting the truth does not change the fact that the truth will remain what it is whether or not you accept it.
Crazy Penguin wrote:And incidentally on the subject of paul…. if you follow his teachings you would not be here for:
Romans 16:17 Now I beseech you, brethren, mark them which cause divisions and offences contrary to the doctrine which ye have learned; and avoid them.Romans 16:18 For they that are such serve not our Lord Jesus Christ, but their own belly; and by good words and fair speeches deceive the hearts of the simple.
So there he’s told you to avoid those who might cause you to quetsion your faith, and my beliefs are certainly anti-doctrinal, so clearly if you follow Paul you shouldn’t be here.
So you are saying that Paul was teaching the Romans to reject himself? Do you even know who the “those” that Paul is refering to are? Paul was warning the Christians of people like you who is not serving the Lord Jesus Christ but your own self by giving “fair” speeches to decieve the heart.
Crazy Penguin wrote:So meat is an exception because of the opinion of one man, who was not the Christ, now to me that is a slippery slope which suggests a whole lot of things can be discounted…Let’s see if this is the opinion of one man.
Acts 10:9-15
9 On the morrow, as they went on their journey, and drew nigh unto the city, Peter went up upon the housetop to pray about the sixth hour: 10 And he became very hungry, and would have eaten: but while they made ready, he fell into a trance, 11 And saw heaven opened, and a certain vessel descending upon him, as it had been a great sheet knit at the four corners, and let down to the earth: 12 Wherein were all manner of fourfooted beasts of the earth, and wild beasts, and creeping things, and fowls of the air. 13 And there came a voice to him, Rise, Peter; kill, and eat. 14 But Peter said, Not so, Lord; for I have never eaten any thing that is common or unclean. 15 And the voice spake unto him again the second time, What God hath cleansed, that call not thou common. 16 This was done thrice: and the vessel was received up again into heaven.What’s happening here, Peter was hungry and God offered to him food. The cood contained meats that were NOT PERMITTED so refused saying “Not so, Lord; for I have never eaten any thing that is common or unclean.” God replied “What God hath cleansed, that call not thouh common.” In other words, God is telling Him how dare you to call what I say clean unclean? This passage here is a clear evidence that we are no longer under the yoke of this “clean or unclean meat.”
1 Corinthians 10:25-26 Whatsoever is sold in the shambles, that eat, asking no question for conscience sake: 26 For the earth is the Lord’s, and the fulness thereof.
We see here apostle Paul confirming something that has already been revealed to peter.Crazy Penguin wrote:Deuteronomy, chapter 25 v 11: “If two men are fighting and the wife of one goes to help her husband by grabbing the testicles of his assailant, you must cut off her hand. Show her no pity.”Now in my view that isn’t a symbol, or a tradition and custom, thats a sin, and the punishment which should be acted on for doing said sin, and well i don’t see that happening very often…
Wrong, it was not a sin. You need to understand that at that time we were leaving under a different dispensation in which we had “an eye for an eye.” Now we are living under the grace of Jesus CHrist that says:
Matthew 5:38-42: 38 Ye have heard that it hath been said, An eye for an eye, and a tooth for a tooth: 39 But I say unto you, That ye resist not evil: but whosoever shall smite thee on thy right cheek, turn to him the other also. 40 And if any man will sue thee at the law, and take away thy coat, let him have thy cloak also. 41 And whosoever shall compel thee to go a mile, go with him twain. 42 Give to him that asketh thee, and from him that would borrow of thee turn not thou away.
Grace doesn’t allow you to do harm unto those who have done harm unto you. It’s like someone claims that he can have slave because there was a time when the USA wasn’t against slavery.
Crazy Penguin wrote:Ok it’s a silly example, but still valid, theres a lot of things from the bible whch are ignored and placed under one of the categories you have said, now I can accept it if you acknowledge all or none of the OT, but inbetweens just lay the whole thing open to ridicule, ignoring some things and not others, it’s not a buffet…THere are no parts in the bible that is ignored. They are parts that are accomplished, some that are not yet accomplished, some that are transforemed into grace, and so on – So bring your quotes from the Old Testament and I will tell you that it is NOT ignored. I will not simply tell you, I will show you how and why.
Crazy Penguin wrote:Ok lets look at the whole love thing again let’s view homosexuals as say lepers (not saying homosexuality is a disease, just something that some people have, and some people don’t).NO. Why? Because we can’t because clearly homosexuality is not a disease.
Crazy Penguin wrote:So now tell me with all honesty that Jesus, when confronted with a homosexual, who has a biological condition which results in them being different would not tell them that they were not sinners and accept them as they were.Show me a scripture that shows that Jesus accepted a sinner as he or she was. Like I said to you before, Jesus welcome all sinners and see what happened to them, they REPENTED. They were no longer sinners. If you wish, I can give you a list of them.
Crazy Penguin wrote:Would not a homosexual ahve an indepth knowledge of his psyche?No, an homosexual is still a man. Therefore limited in knowledge. Like I have told you before, knowledge comes from God only.
Proverbs 1:7 – The fear of the LORD is the beginning of knowledge: but fools despise wisdom and instruction.
Crazy Penguin wrote:Wooo… that’s a sweeping statement, so your saying that science should all be discounted… because it’s not from god, and in fact naything which does nto come directly from god is wrong? But by that definition the majority of the bible and all the quptes you have layed out are also incorrect as they do not come form God, but from people interpreting God’s message which are too different things.Read what I said again, I never said that science should be discounted.
Crazy Penguin wrote:In fact the only things whcih come direct from God… would be the ten commandments, as god wrote them himself, and teh word of Jesus, as he is God… everything else doe snot ocme direct from God, but through man and hence is inherently flawed.So tell me, if you are writing an essay using a pen. The essay is the pen’s words or YOUR words? God used man to write HIS words.
Crazy Penguin wrote:So any condemnation of homosexuals in the bible does not come from God directly, but thorugh man, and so by your arguement is flawed and probably wrong.In an attempt to reject God’s words, you contradicted yourself many times and started making no sense. If you read my previous posts and above posts you will see the flaw in the quoted passage above.
I would have posted more but I am limited in time at the moment. I will post more later.
May 24, 2005 at 3:30 pm #122204Jeff Hester
KeymasterI knew it was going to come down to all this. When people present their views, that’s exactly what they are, their views. Nobody can say anyone is wrong because of the way they were brought up to think or the way he/she himself thinks. Whether you be a liberal or a conservative Christian (no I’m not saying only Christians are conservative), your views are your views and you can’t hold others accountable for them. Now I’ll just stay quiet and watch the show.
May 24, 2005 at 4:01 pm #122246Nessa
ParticipantOkay seeing as this has turned to biblical arguements i thought i would add in a few things that fit in. First off i myself do believe there is a God, but the bible is a different story. I have many friends whom consider themselves atheist, so i shall be speaking from what i have heard them say.
Okay well who is to say that we should all abide by the bible? Who’s to say that it wasn’t just a book written a long time ago for entertainment purposes…If you try saying oh well so many things are true from there and have happened….Well then if i start writing a book now and actually happen to predict the things of the future unknowingly…Then in the future is my book going to be considered the new bible? Am i the new creator of everything and did i make all those things happen? Will the rest of the things in my book keep coming true?…When using the bible in context to defend your arguements, i honestly have to ask…..How do you KNOW that the bible is right?? I mean did God tell you that being a homosexual is wrong?? Did he come in your dreams and tell you?? Or is the bible the only thing?? If the bible had said in the end…Everyone should kill themselves on December 16, 2016 (picking random date)…Would you do it? I mean you seem to be listening to the bible on everything else since it’s something of God. Hm?
But in the end those are just thoughts, since i don’t see the bible as a good arguement, since i previously mentioned of people saying “You’re gay, so you’re going to hell.” Just go ahead and listen to the other saying of “Thou shall not judge, leave it up to HIM” So let them be, if they are meant to go to hell they will, its not up to you to tell them.
And that’s my two cents on this.
May 24, 2005 at 4:24 pm #122232Crazy Penguin
Member@ Reliable
I see we are going to have to agree to disagree… your arguements don’t convince me, and I can see my arguements aren’t convincing you, and seeing as the bible can be interpreted in oh so many different ways it’s difficult to see how we could possibly resolve our completely different interpretations.
You seem to be coming from the literalist school of thought, that the bible was written by God, and is in all aspects correct, whilst I believe that whilst portions of the bible were inspired by God and the actions of god’s son, in the process of being commited to paper, translated and broadcast through the ages they have been inevitably altered in subtle and not so subtle ways until it has reached the stage where the bible contains a heavily filtered verison of god’s message which has to be interpreted in terms of Christian morals and basic logical principles, which in my view cannot justify a condemnation of homosexuals for the fact that due to reasons beyond there control they are attracted to members of the same sex, just as I could not condemn someone for suffering from a disease, as the root causes are in my belief beyond there control.
I could go on and disect your arguement again… but since the fundamental disagreement between us would stay the same there would be no real point to that.
And incidentally on the subject of homosexuality… most of the biblical sins can be justified as sins in that there presence is dangerous to society as a whole for medical or social reasons … is there such a justification for homosexuality being dangerous to society that I am unaware of?
May 24, 2005 at 6:43 pm #122253Reliable
MemberCrazy Penguin wrote:I see we are going to have to agree to disagree… your arguements don’t convince me, and I can see my arguements aren’t convincing you, and seeing as the bible can be interpreted in oh so many different ways it’s difficult to see how we could possibly resolve our completely different interpretations.Let me clarify something, when I joined this conversation you were replying to someone’s post and you were talking about Christianity. Except for one thing, and that is you were talking about the bible incorrectly. Now, my job as a Christian is to use the bible to show you the truth. It would be ignorant of me to think of convincing you because I know that I can’t and it is not job to do so. My job is to introduce you to the truth and the choice is up to you. I cannot force the Christian faith on your throats nor can I stone you for not accepting it. But if you choose to use the bible or choose to talk about Christianity, do it correctly and accordign to the Christian faith. The moment you say something that is against or wrong about the Christian faith (using the bible or anything ) it will be my job to show you what the word teaches.
Contrary to what most people choose to believe, the bible cannot be interpreted in many “completely different interpretations.” Because the Holy Spirit is the one who interpretes for us and we follow. The bible is not an ordinary book like any novel or any newspaper. It is unique and it does not contradict itself. So therefore, your/the interpretations have to be in harmony with the rest of the bible. If they are not, then the bible itself will prove you wrong. I have shown you that the bible proves that your interpretations are wrong.
Crazy Penguin wrote:I could go on and disect your arguement again… but since the fundamental disagreement between us would stay the same there would be no real point to that.I can honestly tell you that you can’t because the bible will not support the interpretations you are giving the scriptures. The disagreement does not exist between us but between you and the word of God. Like I said before, my job is to show this to you.
Now don’t get me wrong, if you wish to speak about homosexuality on a general point of view and not use “Christianity” or the bible to justify your point. Then by all means do so, but if you are using the bible or Christianity incorrectly, I will intervene. It is because of these things that many people see Christianity as something bad because so many people use it for their own profit and disregard the doctrines of Christianity.
Now back to the topic, according to Christianity homosexuality is not only a choice but something unatural, immoral and a sin. You have the right to disagree with this because God Himself has given you free will. So feel free to object based on your personal views that will not include using the bible to justify these views because the bible is clearly and completely against it.
Crazy Penguin wrote:And incidentally on the subject of homosexuality… most of the biblical sins can be justified as sins in that there presence is dangerous to society as a whole for medical or social reasons … is there such a justification for homosexuality being dangerous to society that I am unaware of?You are missing one thing and that is, sins are not wrong because they harm the society. They are wrong because they are disobedience to the word of God. God hates sins, so therefore homosexuality is wrong. Whether or not it harms the society does not justify nor does it change the fact that it is wrong.
Take a look at Qwency’s response to my post. He/she disagreed with me using his/her own personal views without using the bible to try and justify his/her views. I am not saying that I agree with him/her and of course I will reply to the post later on, but the biblical replies are my priorities.
May 24, 2005 at 7:16 pm #122254Reliable
Memberhatedjealousy wrote:Okay seeing as this has turned to biblical arguements i thought i would add in a few things that fit in. First off i myself do believe there is a God, but the bible is a different story. I have many friends whom consider themselves atheist, so i shall be speaking from what i have heard them say.There is no arguments here but merely a discussion. I don’t argue, the minute arguments step in, I no longer post.
hatedjealousy wrote:Okay well who is to say that we should all abide by the bible? Who’s to say that it wasn’t just a book written a long time ago for entertainment purposes…If you try saying oh well so many things are true from there and have happened….Well then if i start writing a book now and actually happen to predict the things of the future unknowingly…Then in the future is my book going to be considered the new bible?The difference between your book and the bible is that. You predicted on appearance, observation, experiences etc… Just like the weather channel, they can “predict” that it will rain tomorrow based on specific clues. But their prediction is not accurate, it may or may not rain. How many times have they predicted that it will be snowing or raining or whatever and what actually happened was contrary to what they predicted? However, the bible does not predict, it prophecises. Most of biblical prophecies have been accomplished except for some ones that will be accomplished. There is no “may or may not” with this because they will happen. I do not wish to continue this discussion because it will be off topic. But I would be more than happy to continue discussing it with you in a new topic or on PMs, any way that is possible.
hatedjealousy wrote:But in the end those are just thoughts, since i don’t see the bible as a good arguement, since i previously mentioned of people saying “You’re gay, so you’re going to hell.”While what this peron say “You are gay you are going to hell” is true, but it is contrary to the Christian faith because it is not done in love. Telling the person this will hurt him rather than help him.
hatedjealousy wrote:Just go ahead and listen to the other saying of “Thou shall not judge, leave it up to HIM” So let them be, if they are meant to go to hell they will, its not up to you to tell them.Now you are using the bible incorrectly to pass a point. You are not the only one who does this but many. We need to see what exactly does the bible mean by thou shall not judge.
You quote a verse that you fail to see the message. And this verse is misinterpreted by many, it is also used as a way to cover sins. “Please don’t judge me because the bible says thou shalt not judge”. How about we see what Jesus meant by thou shalt not judge in the passage you quoted?
Matthew 7:1, “Judge not that ye be not judged.” – The whole passage goes like this.
Matthew 7:1-5
1 Judge not, that ye be not judged.
2 For with what judgment ye judge, ye shall be judged: and with what measure ye mete, it shall be measured to you again.
3 And why beholdest thou the mote that is in thy brother’s eye, but considerest not the beam that is in thine own eye?
4 Or how wilt thou say to thy brother, Let me pull out the mote out of thine eye; and, behold, a beam is in thine own eye?
5 Thou hypocrite, first cast out the beam out of thine own eye; and then shalt thou see clearly to cast out the mote out of thy brother’s eye.First thing we need to accept is the fact that Jesus gave a command and a promiss. The command is clear and that is we should not judge. The promiss is that if we do not judge, we will not be judged. It is that simple and final. But the question is, what type of judgment is Jesus refering to? Jesus is refering to a judgment where you have no evidence or a judgment that is based on appearance. Such as, you see a Christian coming out of a club where as a Christian he shouldn’t be in this place and then you automatically judge him that He was having a lap dance while you have absolutely no clue what He was doing. Or you can see a girl expressing her sexuality and you automatically judge that she is a prostitute just because the attitudes she expresses is what a prostitute would normally do. Or you see a brother in a car with a sister then you judge that they are sleeping together. Jesus tells us to stay away from that.
However Jesus also commands us to judge. Plus, judging is inevitable so therefore it must be accordingly. Now remember that I previously stated that Jesus was refering to judgments that are based on appearance and not on facts. This verse confirms my claim.
John 7:24 – Judge not according to the appearance, but judge righteous judgment.
This verse explains what type of Judgment Jesus was refering to and it also shows that Jesus commands us to judge but the judgment has to be done righteously. If as an unmarried man, I know for a fact that this girl is pregnant for you and I say you are in fornication, this judgment is right. If the fruits you are producing are against the word of God and I claim that you are not a Christian, my judgment is right because the Bible clearly says that we will know the Christians by their fruit.
Further more, we see Paul was judging – Was He wrong?
1 Corinthians 5:3 – For I verily, as absent in body, but present in spirit, have judged already, as though I were present, concerning him that hath so done this deed,
Later on this passage, we see where the bible clearly says that it is OUR JOB to judge each other.
1 Corinthians 5:12 – For what have I to do to judge them also that are without? do not ye judge them that are within?
A judgment on a n homosexual is right because it is not based on “appearance” but on facts. And it is written throughout the bible that no immoral will have a place in the Kingdom of God.
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