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hey i am 20 years old and i have a close friend, we like each other but we do not letting know that each other..
she is very ambitious and pursuing her studies…
basically we had the days we cant live without a single call or msg for even a hour and now she is out of city and living there for the further studies… but now days she has no time for even a single call for whole day..
she got new friends n lots of work to do…
n now we are having big fights even on msgs n calls…
i dont want to let these things happen as i cant let her go…
guys please suggest me how to make her to miss me??
yes she calls me but only in her spare times and whenever she wants to… she is became so careless for me n im having fights with her…but i cant let the situation like this help me…yash wrote:guys please suggest me how to make her to miss me??Hmmm…I’m not sure if you can -make- someone miss you. But if I were in your shoes, I would simply tell her how you truly feel. Tell her -exactly- why you miss her. Fighting won’t bring you closer to her. Just tell her, honestly and deep down, how you feel. Honesty is ussually the best policy in relationships, in my opinion.
I gotta agree with MrOats here… It sounds like she’s getting serious about her studies and her future career and that’s good stuff. It also sounds like she is making new friends who presumably are in a similar situation. As much as you want it to be as it was, things are changing. This doesn’t mean you two are through! It just means your expectations are going to have to change. You may need to give her space, allow her to do what she needs to do for her education and her career. Reminders of things you did together, fun times, little jokes you share, quick texts or IMs or other messages might help – but not intrude on her need to be studious.
Know that all relationships change over time… if it’s meant to be, it will weather the change and be stronger on the other side. And if it’s time to move on – you’ll know that, too.
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