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How can I tell if someone has placed me on there ignore list? For now Messenger is the only way my Girlfriend and I communicate. I have tried repeatedly messaging her…and I know when she gets online. Problem is, I have no idea if she is getting my messages or not. It is possible that I upset her the other day and got put on her ignore list, but it is also equally possible that there is entirely another explanation. If i was put on her ignore list, then I would prefer to just move on…If not, then I don’t want to be so hasty. I have a real dilemna here guys! She had just moved too, so I have no other means of contact. YIKES! I did try signing up for a totally unrelated nickname to the one I have and IM’ing her…but no answer..which brings me back to the original question..cuz if I am not on her ignore list, then maybe something else happened beyond her control. I think there should be a way to at least see if you are on someones ignore list. any suggestions??? I have to know for sure not just assume…..thank you.
Gasp ! You should have done something very bad, if your **Girlfriend** has decided to no longer receive IM from you, don’t you think so (If it’s the case !)
Otherwise, let me remind you that for communicating, there is instant messaging (Yeah ! That’s great !). But there are also email, telephone, snail mail…. telepathy, and so on 😀
So why don’t you try to email her or drop her a call to ask for the real situation ?
Feufollet…did you read my entire post on the problem? She has Just moved…thus i do not have her phone number nor a address. She does not know for sure, where she is going to finally stay. She has been staying with friends since losing her house (it’s along story). anyway..She is one of those people that checks her email about once a month. Last time her and I talked.. she had another friend come on messenger she wanted to talk to. Someone I know who is not a threat ( for those of you thinking she ran off with someone) We agreed to get back on in a hour. When she didn’t show..I posted a are ya there? message about every 15 min for two hours. She has no sound so can’t hear if you message her. I finally resorted to trying to use popup windows such as send a file to maybe get her attention. No luck. It is possible that her computer is broke etc. It is also possible that something I have said has ticked her off. she can be sort of tempermental… So back to the original question (sigh) HOW CAN I TELL IF I HAVE BEEN PUT ON A IGNORE LIST.? That would make everything so much simpler to know what to do. thanks.
If this is even a problem still…
If the user is on your list but appears ‘not online’ you can go to their profile and see if it says they are ‘online’ or not ‘online’ If you see ‘online’ then the user has ignored you.
Send them a mean an childish im under a new name.
Whaaattt…? is that bad? hehe
Quote:quote:Originally posted by adreanne2001If this is even a problem still…
If the user is on your list but appears ‘not online’ you can go to their profile and see if it says they are ‘online’ or not ‘online’ If you see ‘online’ then the user has ignored you.
Send them a mean an childish im under a new name.
Whaaattt…? is that bad? hehe
No Im sorry YOU are wrong. Them having you blocked has nothing to do with you seeing their online status. It only means they wont get a PM you send. Someone can have you blocked but if you still have them on your list you will still see them online if they are not invisable. AND for the rest of your *help*, just “rolling eyes” 😡
but if hi or she is not in my list? how can I know if I am ignored or not?
adreanne2001 wrote:If this is even a problem still…If the user is on your list but appears ‘not online’ you can go to their profile and see if it says they are ‘online’ or not ‘online’ If you see ‘online’ then the user has ignored you.
Send them a mean an childish im under a new name.
Whaaattt…? is that bad? hehe
There really is not a good way to know. Try to send an e-mail and think back to if you’ve done anything to annoy this person. Things like IM’ing people two seconds after they get online, EVERY time they come online might be a reason. Saying something mean or offensive might be another reason. ALSO, if some one has “Don’t allow messages from people not on my list” and YOU are not on this person’s list…they may not be getting your messages.
Oh just add the person in another id. And if that person is “available” in the new buddy list but “invisible/offline” in your original id, then it means she has blocked you. Basically you can’t do anything about the person who has put you on their blocked list, coz even if you can manipulate their blocked list by some manner or some crooked way, but you can’t manage their heart and way of thinking. So get over it and move forward. There will be more people dying to talk to you rather than ignoring you without any reason.
I want to know too; if I made someone put me on their Ignore List. Based on what I’ve read here, there really is no way to tell without signing them as another party or signing in underdifferent name?
I see that the intended party is on-line with their webcam in use, and when I ask to chat and/or view their webcam, there is no response….
Someone please confirm….thanks.
(I would have thought there would be some indication that one has been placed on an ignore list):( .
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