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November 7, 2004 at 6:29 am #14595DaJMan1800Member
I need some advice… If this has happened to you, feel free to vent.
My girlfriend broke up with me at least a month ago. I haven’t gotten over it ever since. Back in summer, we had so many good times, we saw eachother so often, and each time we had fun. Never was there a dull moment. But now everything seems so out of place… It hurts, because unlike most stupid middle school relationships, this one actually meant something. We were so perfect for eachother, and I know that. Now I know we need to be together again. Someone give me some advice, or somthing that’ll make me feel better.
November 7, 2004 at 10:57 am #104136MartinBradleyMemberWell, if your relationship was, as you put it, with ‘so many good times’, then I feel she must have had some reason for splitting up with you?
If that reason was really hard felt by her, then she may not want to get back together. I don’t expect you to tell us the reason, if it is that personal.
Sometimes you just have to face reality, and stare these things right in the face. Its easier said than done, I know, and I do feel for you, as I have been in a similar situation.
But I found that just talking with friends about it, and telling people things was the way of comfort for me. A breakup is never a good thing, and i’m sure she will have been upset too. What you need to do, is attempt to talk to her, and try and figure out what went wrong. Again, its easier said than done, and takes guts to do it. But you’ll most likely feel better after speaking with her.
Hope that helps.
November 7, 2004 at 1:28 pm #104138QwertyMemberShe doesnt like you. Get over it. There will be more ,trust me, or maybe you both need some time.
November 7, 2004 at 7:19 pm #104137TigerbladeParticipanti gotta agree with martin on this one… obviously there was some reason for her to end it. you may or not know, and we dont expect you to tell us, but there’s something. whatever that reason was, it’s not going to go away. i’ve been in that position a few times, and getting back together with the person doesnt solve it. if anything, it just makes it worse.
as much as it may hurt now, try to accept the loss and move on…. in the end its for the best.
November 20, 2004 at 6:03 pm #104140PiercedMemberWell…. I think you gotta get over it! It happened to me about two weeks ago. I am almost over it, but it can take a bit time. First you get angry. Then you cry all the time. and then you get insecure. and then you want her back… That’s what happened to me!
November 26, 2004 at 11:06 pm #104139vikshankerMembergo redirect/send her to your post up there^^
tell her thats how you really feel, and that youd like to be as close as you were before you were going out.
ask her what you did wrong, dont do it again.
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