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May 14, 2003 at 3:14 am #100933
darkjedi
MemberI have an online girlfriend. I live in california and she is in oklahoma for now. We have been together for almost 2 months and known each other for 4. One night she messaged me on ICQ and we have talked ever since. I used to think online dating was stupid and a waste of time. With the comments from the first page it makes it sound like only teens and kids do the online dating thing but i know quite a few people that do it and get married. It sucks in that you cant physically touch them or anything but if it works out eventually you will, i have lots of friends who have gotten married from people they have met online. Hardly ever see them online anymore though which sucks. I went out with a girl in hawaii for a year and a half and got to go to hawaii for two weeks. All i can say about that relationship is that hey i got to go to hawaii for two weeks so it was worth that hehehe. Im a geek, gamer and star wars freak im to shy to really talk to girls in real life. Plus you can get to know someones inner self and not just the first time you meet impression you get when you meet in real life online. That is one of the things i like about it.
June 4, 2003 at 8:18 pm #100900Jeff Hester
Keymasterno i havent lol but ppl i kno hav asked ppl and somtimes ppl ask me imagine that?
June 24, 2003 at 12:42 am #100935MarsBarr
MemberQuote:quote:Originally posted by darkjediI have an online girlfriend. I live in california and she is in oklahoma for now. We have been together for almost 2 months and known each other for 4.
Aren’t you scared??
::reason:: you have no idea wtf she looks like. yeah maybe s/he gives u pics of ‘herself’ but maybe its a GUY and thse pics u see are the pics of the recent girl whos gotten raped by ‘him’. i WAY too scared to ever take a chance. and by the way, ur friends are lucky;). you might not be quite as lucky.
but ya never know these days…. gl with ur ‘girlfriend’ HAHA! (sorry)July 9, 2003 at 11:16 pm #100937rude_ppl_suk
Memberum no reason being im married, but i have alot of ppl who try to ask me out, of course i ALWAYS
July 9, 2003 at 11:18 pm #100936rude_ppl_suk
Memberturn them down. sorry bout not finishing the previous post. i hit the wrong button. dumb me. lol
July 15, 2003 at 9:35 pm #100938spongebobrulezaj
MemberYes. This loser named Chris that goes to my school asked me out on AIM. I am planning on asking someone out on IM when they sign on sometime.
August 4, 2003 at 9:39 pm #100940Tigerblade
Participantactually – i met one of my girlfriends online, through a friend… we got to talking and a few weeks later i asked her out – we hadnt met face to face yet… that was a few days later. we went out for about two months, although i kinda regret it not being longer than that
September 6, 2003 at 11:16 pm #100942karababy108
Memberi’ve never asked anyone online, but i’ve got asked out online thousands of times
September 8, 2003 at 1:11 pm #100941Ladyshellbell
MemberWell I enjoyed reading all the post here. So the question is have I asked anyone out or been asked out via IM’S that I have known in person before? Or someone I have yet to meet in person and have been asked out or would ask out? Man did anyone understand that?
To answer both question
Yes I have been asked out and asked people out I know in person via IM’S
Yes I have been asked out by men who I have not met but only spoke with on line. No I didn’t take them up on it, and No I never asked them out .Take care all Shell
September 8, 2003 at 4:35 pm #100943lmpossible
MemberI always get asked out if I talk to a guy from the same city as me; we start talking then they wanna meet me that night or the day after which I find really weird. Afterall, they don’t even know I’m really a woman at that point. I would never consider this kind of “meeting”. I do have a chat friend that I’ve been chatting to for 10 months and we’ve been talking on the phone a few months that I’m gonna meet this weekend 😀 Wish me luck! :p
September 10, 2003 at 4:41 am #100903Jeff Hester
KeymasterGood luck impossible. I hope you’re meeting in a public place just to be safe.
September 10, 2003 at 8:00 am #100929sciencefeeling
MemberI never go into chat rooms, the only people I chat with is people I have know in person before. There are two exceptions to that rule, two BBB members. One is Jeff, and we all know he is married, so he does not count, and the other…is “TheOther” (hoping nobody took that nickname, hehehe), and he is a friend´s brother, we met online and then we dated in person for a week. We both were rationals about it and the natural conclusion is that you cannot really date or be bf and gf when you can´t be physically together, even if you get along really well. Anyway, I guess we did ask each other out on IM.
Just remember I did add someone for professional reasons,and he did ask me out, but I refused.
Then all the others I knew them before so I don´t see the difference between asking me on a date by IM or by phone, it is the same to me. Actually is for a year now that I don´t give out my home phone number…so it would probably be easier that way.
That is my loooong story about online dating, guess is not much, eh?
N.-October 10, 2003 at 2:31 am #100944Wolfrider
Member*Laughs* I asked the girl I took to prom out over MSN. For weeks I had been trying to get her alone long enough to ask her but she was always surrounded by friends (why the hell do you girls travel in packs?). Anyway we were chatting, prom was brought up and she asked me who I was going with, so I thought “What the hell?”
She said yes too. 🙂
December 8, 2003 at 11:28 pm #100946sweetangelbabe1
MemberQuote:quote:Originally posted by FanaticHave you ever asked anyone out or been asked out by IM?
hey i dont think there is anything wrong wit askin people out online but if u jus met the person that day i dont think u should :rolleyes:
December 10, 2003 at 8:06 am #100945lilmonkeyguy
Memberwell, if u noe them in person, i gess theres nuthin wrong wit it, but if its jus a random person that lives in da same place u do that u met online, i wudnt ask them out
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