Is it possible to add someone to your list..

All I can say is that if someone were to do something like that, I’d find out soon enough and would block them right away no matter who it is. If you don’t have the decency to ask if you can add the other person to your buddy list, you’re not worth chatting with. At least that’s the way I see it.

Yes you can. First of all you will need to gain access to their account. (there are meny progs out there that will do this for you.. i wont say any more than that) then add your email to their list, then delete it. Make sure you havent blocked it. then add the other persons email to your account and have them on perm block.
As to why you would want to do this, i have no idea.

Yes… I do it too. all they (or you) have to do is right click on the messenger icon in the task bar {beside the clock}, and click send an instant message. Then at the top, click on the other tab, and enter their email address. Simple is that. No need to hack/crack.

It’s not the question but the action you asked about that I find indecent. But who gives a poop what I think, right?

You don’t need to be on someones contact list to message them. As long as they know your email address, they can send you an instant message. There is an option to turn this feature off in your client if this is bothering you. There is no way to add someone to your list without them knowing, without resorting to illicit hacking or trickery.

Also, Frutzle made a valid observation in his post about the ethics of adding someone without there knowledge. He was not attacking you, just questioning the reasoning behind your question. Sometimes it helps to explain your reason for asking, as well as the question to get a clear answer. It also helps us make sure you are asking a legitimate question, and not one that may break our Forum Policies and Guidlines. Don’t take offense, read his response again, it should be clear what he was saying.