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How can I see if my friends are hidding behind the dark curtains of Invisible mode. I do wish them to give a surprise. And then again how to hide from the people like me who wish to see who all are in invisible mode.
I Know too much to ask.
Freecasanove
Quote:quote:Originally posted by freecasanovaHow can I see if my friends are hidding behind the dark curtains of Invisible mode.
You can’t. That’s the whole point.
Quote:quote: I do wish them to give a surprise. And then again how to hide from the people like me who wish to see who all are in invisible mode.Well if you don’t like to be seen while invisible, what makes you think your friends want you to see them?
Q. 1.How can I see if my friends are hidding behind the dark curtains of Invisible mode?
A .1. Simple u cant:D…..there are software out there claiming u can but in reality they dont do any such thing and on second thots why would u wana do that in first place…….if yahoo gave that option it had reasons for it…..and reason being EVERYONE HAS RIGHT TO PRIVACY.
Q.2. how to hide from the people like me who wish to see who all are in invisible mode?
A.2. there is a software called “deny buddy” u go on that site and take u r name out of friends list of ppl u dont trust and he wouldnt know…..:cool:People ask me all the time, why I log in as invisible. I tell them….. Just as you have the right to pm me and expect me to talk to you, I also have the right not to talk to anyone if I don’t feel like it. Or maybe I’m already talking to 10 people in pm’s and CAN’T HANDLE ANYMORE!!!!!!! But regardless of the reasons of being invisible, it’s still MY choice!!
Why is this an issue??? I mean, Netti is right, we all have a right to not be seen or not talk to someone. The issue could be raised “Well at least s/he could tell me s/he is busy!” Well, what if s/he does not have the time? Which is why s/he is not writing in the first place. OR afraid that the person writing is going to have a fit….just like when s/he does not write back…well then why bother writing in the first place.
Well, if have or have not already lost you, it is people who are too easily offended and PERHAPS slightly self-centered who have issues like “I BET THIS PERSON IS IGNORING ME ON PURPOSE……I CAN’T BELIEVE IT!” SO, here’s the thing…..stop taking EVERYTHING as a personal assult. People get BUSY….people get overloaded with PM’s….also, sometimes people are too quick to add other people to their friends’ list (in reference to another post…I don’t remember the name… sorry…but it’s on here somewhere in the forum and the poster made A LOT of sense)
SOMETIMES, when you have a conversation with someone they want to add you to the list…..then they PM non-stop and you added them just to not offend the person in the first place.To bring it all back….there are many reasons to be invisible…. if you are P.O.’d about it… ask THE PERSON why… and if the person does not answer and you are still P.O> take yourself off of the list and off of your list and don’t think about it anymore. PUNTO!
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