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April 14, 2005 at 3:12 am #17865
m3rcy
MemberRecently I’ve been a bit lonely and I’ve been thinking about this girl who I keep seeing. I don’t know who she is nor do I know a single thing about her. I’ve only heard her talk once but everything about her makes me light up inside. Just the way she looks at me.. and her gorgeous smile. It just brightens everything. It’s really strange though.. she pops in and out of my life. I see her maybe 4 times a year. She dosn’t live in my home town but she always seems to appear when Im at my lowest of times.
Some people think that there is one person out there that is our soul mate. I think if that is true, shes the girl. I feel this amazing connection when I see her. Maybe we’re supposed to meet up later in life~ who knows. Maybe it was all just a coincidence.
But tell me, do you believe in that ‘perfect’ person? The person out there whos made for you?
April 14, 2005 at 4:22 am #119411EEDOK
Memberwell thinking of the way people are made, I highly doubt you were any part of the thought process..
April 14, 2005 at 10:43 am #119420m3rcy
Memberhuh? don’t be a hater.
April 14, 2005 at 3:48 pm #119409Oreo
MemberMaybe it’s something like what this book is about…I saw a thing on it yesterday… When God Winks
April 14, 2005 at 5:36 pm #119408sciencefeeling
MemberThis is such a difficult question…what I think is that there is more than one “one” for each of us. I think you can live happily with more than one person, but you hapen to come accross just a few of them, maybe two or so. Most of them, you are never going to meet.
Who knows, maybe is something that i tell myself so I don´t get depressed…
N.-April 14, 2005 at 8:05 pm #119416neo_ny_23
Memberm3rcy dude.. Go talk to her. Untill and unless you talk to her, you wont know her and untill and unless you know her, or she knows you, you cant be sure if she is ur “the one”. Trust me. I see hot girls sitting in my class and I also feel the same. But after few weeks of classes, i just realize how “bitchy” they are and laugh off about my initial reactions and feelings about them. It happened even recently where this hot girl comes and sits right next to me in my class. I was feeling the same “good good” things as you feel right now but its 6 weeks now and she still sits right next to me and we still talk and she is still hot, but am 500% sure that she is not the one for me.
So talking is the best way of knowing some 1.
April 15, 2005 at 2:47 pm #119421m3rcy
Memberhahaha this isn’t any normal hot chick. but anyway, i can’t just talk to her. i never see her. she just seems to appear when im most down in my life -_-
like when my brother broke up with his wife or when my nan got breast cancer and didn’t take treatment and died. or when my sister died. i only see her when these sorts of things happen. it strange eh. maybe im just going crazy.anyway, i think there is one person out there for everyone that is the ‘perfect’ match. absolutly perfect. it would be very rare to meet with them though.
~just my opinion.i’ve actually signed up to a dating website hahaha. i get about 20 emails a day… the thing is, about 17 of them are from guys -_- hahahaha >_<
June 29, 2005 at 2:40 am #119417Aqeel
ParticipantI believe in all this when I was in my worset days of life, even I’d tried a suiecide attempt, I meet someone and that someone is all mine today.
So be brave and bold, when ever next time you see her, ask her decenlty to make her a friend of yours. I don’t believe in love in first look, love is a seed which you will sow in your heart. Just say first you will become friend, and sow the love seed in her heart. Then time, patience, care they all will work as oxygen, water and light this seed will become a small plant. Tear apart your heart and grow there, there will be pain but that pain will be amazing as every creation is painfull. Just say a mother giving bith to a child.
You are also going to creat a new bond so it will must be painful but to eat the fruit of love tree you first will have to sow it. So first make her a friend and then continue to work on that relation, soon it would get stronger and bigger…June 29, 2005 at 7:57 am #119412EEDOK
Memberm3rcy wrote:huh? don’t be a hater.
well your parents probably were thinking ooh yea, time to get laid, get out on…. And if I am to take this any further I’m sure someone would threaten to ban meJune 29, 2005 at 6:10 pm #119418Blu3saphire
Member😀 I really beleive that there is “the one” for all of us, but I would just let it happen on it’s own.Chasing it usually will find you “the one” ,you ain’t really looking for ya know. But maybe it’s just me lolz…:p
June 29, 2005 at 6:44 pm #119410Oreo
MemberEEDOK wrote:well your parents probably were thinking ooh yea, time to get laid, get out on…. And if I am to take this any further I’m sure someone would threaten to ban meYou know what they say “It’s the thought that counts” If you know you need to censor yourself…perhaps what you want to say should be kept to yourself. Please respect other people’s feelings and ideas…just as yours should be.
June 29, 2005 at 8:20 pm #119419Blu3saphire
MemberDon’t get me wrong I am not hating ..:)
August 12, 2005 at 11:36 pm #119406Jeff Hester
KeymasterHey m3rcy I know what you feel. I had the same thing with a person and I was feeling that sort of connection.. Yet years went by before our lives crossed. But damn it was worth the wait!
Dont lose your patience mate when the moment comes your life will be mega!
August 13, 2005 at 2:22 am #119415Qwerty
MemberI think it’s pretty sad you crave this chik you’ve never had a word with. Why don’t yoiu say hi to her or something?
August 13, 2005 at 9:00 pm #119413RabidKitten
ParticipantI think it’s pretty sad that you insist of not only saying ‘chick’, but you also spell it without the second ‘c’. *shrug* But to each his own. Who are we to judge?
Everyone goes through their motions in their own time. Gotta go with the flow, feel it out and then go for it. *wink*
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