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December 21, 2003 at 6:48 am #5115Someguy03Member
Well i live in california and i was talking to a girl that goes too a diffrent school than me and she told me that the guys there are total perverts. She said the guys reach up girls skirts, pants them, and kiss them alot. (Keep in mind that she is only in middle school[/b])
It would be nice to know that our whole world isnt turning into a place where schools are your everday bar. I’ve seen the news and know that society gets worse every year, so i really dont know what to believe. Just wanted to know if it is like this all over or not. I’m guessing that in the late 80s and mid 90’s this was never even a issue. too bad we dont have a cleaner big blue ball (earth), like this one…:rolleyes: (bigblueball forums)Is it like this where you live also? Or do you think this girl is lying?
December 21, 2003 at 8:35 am #52210AnnaParticipantSounds a lot like an Oakland public school to me. [:P]
December 21, 2003 at 4:08 pm #52212Zlink123MemberDoesn’t look like Anna thinks this is a bad thing. :p
December 21, 2003 at 4:59 pm #52213dainbramageMemberDoesn’t look like Zlink thinks.
December 21, 2003 at 5:04 pm #52214DJHyperbyteMemberDoesn’t look.
Can you drop whatever you have against Zlink, dainbramage? There’s no need to insult him out of the blue. 🙂
December 21, 2003 at 7:43 pm #52209AnnaParticipantSomeguy,
Slutty clothes invite slutty treatment. Think about it.
December 22, 2003 at 8:53 am #52223coolguyj2MemberQuote:quote:Originally posted by AnnaSomeguy,
Slutty clothes invite slutty treatment. Think about it.
absoulutely right… the gurls can stop them, only bcos they allow, the guys reach further (hold it I havent triend nything like this, 😉 )… its not only in california but in many parts of the world… just remember this… u cannot clap with one hand… u need the other also…
December 22, 2003 at 9:57 am #52220shifterMemberThere is no excuse for behavior like this, no matter what is being worn. Putting blame on the victim is ridiculous. If someone attempted these acts they should be charged for molestation. This is no joking matter in my opinion.
December 22, 2003 at 10:51 am #52222coolguyj2MemberQuote:quote:Originally posted by shifterThere is no excuse for behavior like this, no matter what is being worn. Putting blame on the victim is ridiculous. If someone attempted these acts they should be charged for molestation. This is no joking matter in my opinion.
okie I dont wanna start an argument over this, but as I said before, you cannot clap with only one hand… u need the other…
guys will do tht only if gurls allow them… how can anyone kiss someone if the other person doesnt allow… as for wht they wear, it is true to some extent… if the clothes are 2 exposive then obviously any guy will fall…December 22, 2003 at 7:36 pm #52219shifterMemberPerhaps you’ve never heard of rape? That’s what follows this kind of behavior. If someone cannot control themselves to this extent, then perhaps they should be enrolled in an all boys school or a correctional facility.
Your analogy of one hand clapping is a bit pointless. If someone has been molested, then logic would permit that there must also be a molester. Simply because someone wears a skimpy outfit does not give you the right to do as you please. I agree that a girl who is dressed in this manner has a higher likelyhood of being treated this way, but it does not make it justifiable in the least.
I am not starting an argument, I am stating a point of view. I accept that there are other point of views, although I may not agree with them.
December 22, 2003 at 8:21 pm #52221coolguyj2MemberQuote:quote:Originally posted by shifter
I am not starting an argument, I am stating a point of view. I accept that there are other point of views, although I may not agree with them.agreed… the above was my POV… no more discussion… 🙂
December 22, 2003 at 9:02 pm #52217Someguy03MemberWell aparently the school is filled with alot of bad kids. And the girls seem to get turned on (like the boys) when this all happens. I think that was coolguy was trying to show is that this isnt like the guys going around doing these things to the girls, but the girls taking part in it also.
December 22, 2003 at 10:00 pm #52218shifterMemberYou hadn’t stated that the girls were willing participants. I obviously assumed otherwise. In this case, I would just have to chalk this behavior up to the growing promiscuity of teenagers. Blame it on society. 😮
December 22, 2003 at 10:02 pm #52215DavidParticipantQuote:quote:Originally posted by shifterYou hadn’t stated that the girls were willing participants. I obviously assumed otherwise. In this case, I would just have to chalk this behavior up to the growing promiscuity of teenagers. Blame it on society. 😮
I’m guessing things have changed in the last decade then. This is how it is in my High School…It’s not like I do any of that stuff; Girls won’t come near me. 😮
December 22, 2003 at 10:51 pm #52211Zlink123MemberI’d like to think that this type of behavior in schools is rare; What faculty would allow this? In my area, where schools are rarely over 1000 students, this type of behavior is greeted with “extreme” (not extreme enough in my opinion) punishment even if both parties are willing. I’m struggling to see how this type thing could be allowed within a school.
and — David, I feel your pain.
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