hi I am new to this site and I was searching for just the thing thats being discussed here..cuz well I am..into a prob..

A guy saw my sister’s profile on a social-networking site and i think he kinda liked her so he got her id from her profile and now whenever my sis logs in yahoo msngr he pops out of nowhere and starts talking to her..now i know that he must be having these programs like “secret buddy add” and like that..and the thing is he keeps repeating “i luv u” n **** like that to my sister..and when i tried talking him out on this matter by asking him how he comes to know when my sis comes online?he said its just my heart which tells me..now I tried every way to talk to him about it and I even blocked him on my sister’s msngr..but still I wana know from where he got those programs when they can not be easily found through google..I mean I REALLY wana know how to know someone’s status without being in their friend list..i mean till now i never felt the need for this but now I “really” do..and I guess there should be no issue on whether not to make it available to all or to make it available..cuz I think that if there are stalkers like these as i mentioned above using this technique then the victim can easily block them and get rid of the problem..but

in these cases these programs or “tricks” would be very useful..

and besides..I don’t see no harm in knowing the status of someone who is not on my messenger list as long as this info is not used to trouble that person..

Thanks..