Yeah, I’m having the same problem with my aim. Whenever I type a message and press send it stalls for about 10 seconds and then sends.
Also I have found the only way to get my aim working like it is supposed to is by directly connecting to the person I am talking to. I know that its not the amount of RAM I have because I have 384 MB which ahouls be way more than enough to smoothly run aim. Can someone please help me with this it is really getting annoying. Oh and its also not the connection speed because I have DSL, so I dont know what it is. Please help!