September 20, 2005 at 9:08 am #130364AnnaParticipant
I suggest alcoholism, works everytime. 😀September 20, 2005 at 9:43 am #130367OreoMember
Gotta watch out for that alcohol….it causing things like drunk dialing/IMing…..UFFF…never good things.September 20, 2005 at 9:47 am #130365AnnaParticipantAnna wrote:I suggest alcoholism, works everytime. 😀
…Kidding of course.
But if you guys seriously figure out the answer, don't hesitate to call me.
I'm flying back to Canada tomorrow to finally move all my furniture and things from the ex-beau's place (8 months later, and I'm still having nostalgic dreams) …should prove to be interesting, to say the least.September 21, 2005 at 1:24 am #130369Someguy03Member
I thank every single one of you for your advice. I needed all of it. I did many things:
– I expanded who I hung out with and am around alot more girls now
Thank you for suggesting this, it worked so well! It was an easy task I should have thought of before (It really opened me up to what many of you were saying: The world has many girls, and I just need to keep looking until I find the right one
– I stopped talking to all my friends about her.
This made everything so much easier. My friends don't think about it. I don't think about it. We talk about other more exciting and amusing things. Having an environment that surrounds topics other than my ex really helps alot.
– I took her off my buddylist
I thought that I would be able to keep her on my buddylist without looking at her away messages and so on (as Hasan said), but I just couldn't. I found myself often opening her MySpace through heR AIM profile and reading through her comments or so on. After deleting her, I can now look at my buddylist without thinking of her, and I don't have the urge to see whats going on in her life anymore.
If I wasn't about to go to bed, I would list many more things that you all helped with. I thought about going and searching for a new girl to maybe be with, but then I was afraid of finding a girl and making myself like her simply because I wanted to get over my ex. So I've decided to stick with crush's for awhile and take things slow so I don't end up in a relationship a week from now. I even considered getting drunk (anna *cough*), but decided that might be a bad idea after all ;]September 21, 2005 at 2:49 pm #130376HasanMember
I'm glad atleast 2 of my advices worked to help you feel better 🙂September 21, 2005 at 5:37 pm #130381sarahtownyMember
Hey that's great news! Never ever listen to me ok, not a good idea ha, but just glad you seem to be making your way again :0)September 21, 2005 at 8:49 pm #130372EEDOKMember
awesome, the watching pornography option didn't even have to be mentioned, gjSeptember 22, 2005 at 4:51 am #130385gossipingraeMemberAnna wrote:I suggest alcoholism, works everytime. 😀
works for me! and besides, that's so much better than a pint of ben & jerry's lol.September 20, 2008 at 7:40 am #130389tatooweenyMember
I agree with another that you should join a gym or something and just vent your frustrations about this by working out. I have a simular situation, and it's helping big time. Just remember… there are a lot of other chicks that will come your way, so think positive and try to learn from this experience.September 20, 2008 at 5:10 pm #130363GandalfMember
Wow, you win the award for digging up a topic that was three years old! :pSeptember 20, 2008 at 10:27 pm #130374TigerbladeParticipant
If he hasn't moved on by this point he would have been better off just marrying the girl.September 21, 2008 at 11:55 am #130370Someguy03Member
Hahaha wow, I can't believe I even posted a thread about this. I must've been in middle school.October 27, 2008 at 4:26 pm #130388AstrocatParticipantSomeguy03;179617 wrote:Without going into much detail, me and this girl were together and then a few days ago it all ended…horribly (she left me, I didn't leave her).
It's really frustrating because I dont have any interest in getting back with her, but I cant stop thinking about her. I tried busying myself by hanging out with my guy friends, but I usually have school, and so I basically spend all of after school being depressed about her. I see her away messages saying shes hanging out with other guys, and I get jealous and depressed about that. We can't really talk because when we do we usually end up fighting (I have noticed that in most cases it takes a few months before you are able to talk again as friends without it being weird).
I really need advice on how to get my mind off her/how to not think about her what shes doing/etc.
Any recieved would be VERY appreciated.
Talk to her and tell her how you feel.October 27, 2008 at 4:35 pm #130382sarahtownyMemberAstrocat;233421 wrote:Talk to her and tell her how you feel.
Astro, he wrote this post in 2005, if you read the lastest comments we were having a giggle that someone found it and dragged it back again.
Take it you did not get your weetabix this morning :pApril 3, 2009 at 3:51 am #130390whitefoxMember
ok spring break is coming up and i get depressed and obsessive over a girl when im not seeing her at school i need the exact same help or else spring break will be ****
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