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June 30, 2004 at 5:10 am #43327LucifinaMember
Someguy you are really Some Guy a great one infact. I hope everything turns out great and wish you lots of luck and happiness.
June 30, 2004 at 7:31 am #43331CoxsackieVirusMemberKyle? Seen Cast Away? The sun will rise tomorrow. It was good you didn’t whine about breaking up. It would make you sound more like a baby or something. 😀
June 30, 2004 at 9:57 am #43309PhilMemberAh well, revenge would have ben fun! Maybe you could put a laxative in her drink one day, eh!?
Hmm, OK, maybe I should just appreciate the fact that it’s resolved! Congratulations buddy
June 30, 2004 at 1:06 pm #43328LucifinaMemberLOL! Yea maybe a little revenge would’ve been sweet, but not a laxative in her drink. I’m not on her side or anything because what she did was wrong. Phil, how would you feel about a Tabasco Enema? It might not be as easy as the laxative, but more evil if I do say so myself.
June 30, 2004 at 7:23 pm #43321Someguy03MemberWell, you might say I had my revenge, in an interesting sort of way. You might also be able to consider it worse than laxative or something. Heck, I might as well explain.
Shes in peru right now for a vacation. She is staying with her cousins, and one of them has a laptop. So last night she got on AIM for the first time in a few weeks, and I hadn’t talked to her at all because she wasn’t replying to my emails. I thought she might ignore me on AIM, so I IMed her and told her that her most recent Ex before me was at my house (we are best friends).
So we talked for awhile. I had emailed her a few hours before asking straight out if we could still be friends and saying that I wanted to, and apparently that got through to her, and she stopped being mad at me, though sadly I still don’t know why she was mad at me.
Well finally, after some talking about that and about her staying in Peru she said she wanted to talk to ben (the guy I lied about being over at my house). So I was stuck in a corner, so I impersonated him, in a good way though. After talking and talking she said she still hadn’t got over Ben (keep in mind that I was pretending to be Ben). “Ya I remembered I like you after I heard “I miss you” By Blink 182.” Then I flurted with her as ben for awhile. Then finally she said she probably shouldn’t have another BF, but just another friend at the MOMENT. So I kept hitting on her as ben, talking about how I wouldn’t mind being more than friends if she ever wanted to.
Then finally near the end of the conversation I (as ben) was like “Ya, I guess we could JUST be friends” and she was like “screw being friends” and made it sound like I (as ben) should ask her out. I stopped there though, as I am not going to ask a girl out when I didn’t even know what Ben thought. So I just said I had alot to think about, flurted with her some more, and she finally had to go.
So basically I pretended to be her Ex (whos my best friend) and found out that she still likes her him and that she want’s to go out with him, and he doesn’t even know it happened.
I should tell him and not her right? Or her and not him? Neither?
I’m friends with her again and I just don’t want her mad at me.
June 30, 2004 at 9:46 pm #43326dmeMemberI’d tell Ben, but not her.
He’s your best freind. She’s cheap. I’d expect ben to be either amused of pissed off about the affair though.
In addition, chances though are that either she intended to start you and Ben argueing, or she might have seen through your ‘Ben imitation’, and just went on with the whole thing, since, at least to me, it’s a little bit obvious that both of you would have decided what to IM her and what not to. Either way, admitting to her that you pretended to be Ben would defenitely give her the upper hand.My personal reaction? I’d just inform Ben, since something like that has the potential to break a good freindship, and ignore the whole thing. Life goes on. Life is a bitch but survival of the fittest. Survival of the fittest, not of the bitchyest or most revengeful, but of the way you deal with the situations life throws at you. Keep the freindships and ignore anything else that doesn’t need to be cared about. (a little philosophical – call me Socrates ;))
June 30, 2004 at 9:50 pm #43314OreoMemberI’d let him in on the convo….he’s going to find out sooner or later. Maybe not your smartest move to chat with her as your friend…but…it’s a mistake that some of us have made in the past….Why didn’t you just tell her Ben left??
June 30, 2004 at 10:23 pm #43329LucifinaMemberBy all means do tell Ben, and yes why didn’t you just say he left or something, geez. However, I can’t fault you b/c i’ve done something similar. Inaddition, I don’t see the effect of revenge on that b/c it could blow up in your face…so stop acting on a whim. I completely agree with dme.
July 2, 2004 at 10:59 pm #43322Someguy03MemberWell I told him. He told her when I asked him not too. She was so mad that she told me he told her and started yelling at me / some cussing. I just finished writing a half page apology, lets hope it helps.
July 3, 2004 at 10:36 am #43310PhilMemberIf you don’t tell Ben then it might come as a shock when she comes and sits next to him and places her hand on his leg. Maybe he can go along with the game if you do, or just leave it there. But yeh, it’ important for him to know!
July 6, 2004 at 7:21 pm #43315OreoMemberWell, I think Ben was proably not too pleased that you used his likeness on the Internet…also, think about it…he knows he still has power over this girl (and YOU for that matter, why should HE respect you when you didn’t respect him). All of this will blow over by the next school year…as long as you quit fanning the flames.
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