You said your husband and you are on different computers, I’m assuming you are on a LAN. If you are connected to a HUB, that might be your problem. Because if the internet is being shared to the HUB from your husband’s computer, you’re getting the “****-end” of the connection. And if that’s the case, you should suggest to your lover to switch to a router. And if you allready are on a router, there is no reason why your husband should get a better connection. Unless you are constantly using your connection for downloading or playing games and such.