I am amazed that no one has yet stated that if you use your head first, that perhaps you can avoid getting into a situation where a choice must be made between head and heart. I am definitely a “heart” person myself but I try to let my head stear me clear of those situations where heart would be at risk, although I admit that is not always possible.
abaconw
True story but funny: A friend was sitting in the passenger seat of a car in a restaurant parking lot when another car driven by a blonde pulled along side and parked. Getting the girls attention, he told her, “Y’all have the most beautiful hair that I have ever seen.” After she blushed a little and thanked him , he continued, “but why did you dye the roots black?”
abaconw