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September 20, 2005 at 12:51 am in reply to: I need advice on how to stop thinking about this girl so I can move on… #130387
Okay, another topic at which I am an expert. I just broke up with my boyfriend a few days ago. He lives in LA, and I live in Dallas. tried to break up with him serveral times.. but each time.. he promises to move here. So finally he buys a $625,000 house and a new car ( and doesn’t have a job !!??) for his parents ( who don’t work) I can’t afford the trips back and forth alone! Anyway to make along story short, once again after a week.. he starts the begging, promises and gult trips.. but THIS time he goes and sleeps with this girl who was on his myspace list ( a friend) which also created a problem. I was like.. dude.. why do you keep these females as friends who flirt with you?
So then he begged me last sunday and went and slept with her.. then called me right afterwards the minute he got home saying how he realizes more than ever how much he loves me. Then he trashed the girl. Sent her naked picture to his best friend. Lot of things.. it got nasty! I sent her an email which the chat logs about how he trashed her ( not that she really cares I don;t think.. judging by her myspace ID.. she is nothing more than *cough*) He got mad and started defending her, but he says I am the love of his life. ( LOL!) So then it got REALLY nasty.. I had all of his passwords and posted her naughty pic on his myspace profile pic (*naughty me!*) LOL! it was world war 3. Honestly for me.. it was easier to end that way.. find a reason to hate soemone and you won’t miss them.
Dating someone else doesn’t help in my opinion. The same day.. my ex BF of 3 years who was a MAJOR JERK showed up after almost a year wanting to get married (oh, can’t find anyone else like me! I guess he got dogged by a few girls before he apprecaited me!) But really.. I was so not interested!
There has got to be something about this girl that you didn’t like or thats he lied about or soemthing.. so everytime you are tempted to call or message her.. just think of that.. get pissed off and then go do something that makes you feel good. As well.. do something that makes you feel better about yourself!last but not least.. watch Chris Rock: Never Scared and have a margarita.. or 2.. or 10. Thats what I did Saturday night! And move on baby!
regarding the topic of why we might do such things.. there are many reasons why one might want to seem idle. I don’t know how many of you are aware of this ( am sure that everyone is), but you can’t log into 2 ID’s at one time. You also cannot install 2 yahoo messengers, and run them at the same time. So, what if you had a need to do this? The asnwer is yahoo web messenger! If you had some reason ( good or bad 🙂 ) to do that.. the other person might seem hesitant abut responding if you were available ( assuming that they do not know that you cannot log into 2 ID’s from the same PC at the same time) If your known ID to them shows idle ( again we assume here that they know that any activity on your PC will casue the idle status to disappear) Voila! Your installed Yahoo messenger using your main ID will appear as idle and you can chat with another ID using web messenger. For whatever reason you may have for doing that. Ask me how I know… the OracleofTruthandKnowledge now pleads the 5th.
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