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Your not going to find alot more support here until you actually make a move. Wasn’t the point of this topic for advice? And your not using it when we give it to you. You made this topic a month and 3 days ago, and look how far we have gotten! No where!!! 😉
theres a first for everything buddy and firsts are usually hard so dont feel bad…just try talking to her and thres gonna be another dance buddy… its hard to get a “no” but it happens so dont worry buddy if you ask her shes bound to say yes because she was about to say that…and I noe the feeling too…you want to but you dont relal yknow if its the “right” thing to do like what is she gonn say??? so you get all scared and dont ask because…youre scared of getting a no…hope that helps somewhat…
-quiksilver-Meh, I’m not too worried about that. I think we could make good friends, and she doesn’t seem as immature as most of the girls at my school(which I think is a good thing).
Soooooooo, if you are not worried about rejection. Go up to her and ask her out!!!!!!!
Hehehe, you have all of us telling you to GO, just do it!, I think we don’t really get why you don’t want to aproach her. If she remembers you it is actually a plus, better remembered than unnoticed, I think.N.-
yep….since she remebers….that’s your first topic starter right there. Move along after that…it should be even easier…go for it!
Quote:quote:Originally posted by sciencefeelingSoooooooo, if you are not worried about rejection. Go up to her and ask her out!!!!!!!
Woah-woah WOAH,;) I’m only 13, is that even legal? (seriously, I’m not sure).. but if it isn’t, I don’t think getting a ice cream cone from Dairy-Queen should count. 😀
You’re right. Why I can’t just apporach her… I’m still investigating why.
its legal buddy go up and do it….wats the worst that can happen? at age 13 girls dont USUALLY go round gossippin oo he likes me toeveryone anymore!!! so chill man shell say yes as to what you said in the first post! and goooood luck ! tell us about it once you do it 😉 im waiting for u to be happy at the yes!!!
-quiksilver-AwesomeSauce,
Okay, so you know where she hides. But what do you know about her. Do your homework, ask her friend what she likes. And if need be learn about what she’s interested in. And then start a convo.Example: So I heard you were into . . .
To be honest, girls like it when guys take the first step. Because we are just as, if not more afraid of talking to the opposite sex.
This is to neo_ny_23:
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now all the time I feel that if I go on trying to talk with her more n more then she might assume that I m some stalker and might get annoyed also. any tips? well, 😛 the other day, I confessed that I am interested in her to another girl who works with her. so she kinda knows that I m interested in her…….. but God, dont know what to talk and how to start atalk. phew. I m so free with girls online but why the hell I suck offline n in real? :((P.S. Add to that, I look crappy
I hardly think talking to her is stalking. And you said you talked to someone she worked with. If your really interested in this girl, ask her co-worker about her. Find out what she likes. We all gab at work, so they have to know at least what she talks about.
As to the sucking off line, I think everyone is like that in some way. I know I suck at convo. On line its easy, no faces, and the comforting fact that you will never ever have to be in the same room with this person. You can just block them and never have to deal with any mixed signals or emotional issues.
And whats all this about looking crappy? I’m sure its not as bad as all that. But to be honest, as a girl, the most important thing is not looks. Yes its big on the list, but personality is definitely as equal a necessity. If the guy is totaly hot but a jacka$$, its not worth it. Trust me.
OK, I was just chatting with my friend and he told me that he had talked to my crush earlier at school today.
Edit: Good advice, Oreo[image edited]I think I believe him because he usually never lies to me about stuff like this. I’m not mad at him either; he already asked me if he could say that to her and I said that I didn’t mind. Actually, I’m kind of glad.
Now I am seriously thinking about going over to her at lunch, sitting down and asking “Do you know my friend ?” and saying that what my friend said was true, but not entirely because she’s “cute” – because of how she’s different from most of the other kids, and because she’s so much like me… and she seems very kind. Now, after typing this, I’m thinking this will take courage but I guess I’d better get it over with. She already knows who I am, and now she’s been questioned about it, and now she knows that I like her; so then again, I don’t think it will be hard.
sometimes thats just what we gotta do. just be direct, whatever the consequences may be. I still say one of these days when I feel like getting slapped around i’m gonna walk around and try every pickup line i’ve ever heard… just to see the reactions.
gotta love the intervention of friends in this whole process… where would we be if it werent for people going and finding us information
I’m surprised none of her friends have said anything to you (usually thats what girls do)… But that’s assuming she likes you.
Yesterday, after lunch, the girl I have a crush on walked passed me a lot near the vending machines. At one point, she even walked over to me and stood next to me for about 6 seconds; we didn’t talk to each other or even look at each other, and when I couldn’t take the suspense anymore, I (politely) walked away. Dang, I blew every chance I had to say something to her. Now I REALLY regret walking away, because maybe she was about to say something to me.
And today was her birthday, because her locker had a big long peice of colorful paper on it that said “Happy Birthday!” and I knew it was for her, because it had her name written on it in big letters. After my last class, I planned on saying happy birthday to her while passing her and her locker in the hall; I had to FORCE myself to say it, but I obviously didn’t force myself enough because I don’t think it was loud enough she could hear. IF the hallway would have been empty except for me in her, she would have heard me as clear as day, but.. oh… well. Urgghh.
Well, you can always say, “Hey, how was your birthday?” Then you can get to talking about how you tried to say happy b-day to her but she didn’t hear you. Maybe she stood next to you before b/c she was going to invite you to her party or something… You won’t ever find out until you start talking. She might think that you DON’T actually like her if you don’t talk to her. She might think your friend is full of it…OR that you really don’t like her that much. From a girl’s point of view, I’m sure she doesn’t understand why you won’t talk to her. Just do it. 🙂
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