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December 3, 2004 at 12:33 am #73324Jeff HesterKeymaster
I can see it now dude, you’ll be posting pictures of you and her on here. I think it’s guaranteed, and I’d be happy to see you end up with her so you can change the topic title to Happy. After all this I’ve read, I know you’ve got her. There’s no need to be doubt approaching her anymore. I think it’s fair to say you have to approach her now and get everything straight about this Shindy deal, Either way this Shindy told you she wishes you talked to her. Nothing can stop you now. Best of wishes.
December 3, 2004 at 1:20 am #73394kyuubiMemberAGGGGR!!!!!!…..GO FOR IT!!!…..how much more confirmation do you need?….JEZZ!!!…..aggrrr….go go go go go go go go go !!!!!
December 3, 2004 at 3:42 am #73395gossipingraeMemberawesome, for real man, just freakin ask the girl…i’m gettin tired of reading this thread about how you are too shy…if she says yes, then that is just great…if not, well then there are other fish in the sea.
sounds to me this shindy or whatever her name is, is this chick. seems that she likes you too, so what will hurt if you ask?
oh and PS coming from a girl’s POV, don’t get her a gift for the holidays. a nice card would be more appropriate. if (heaven forbid) this shindy chick doesn’t go out with you, you don’t have to say to yourself, “damn, why did I waste my money?”
if you feel it is absolutely necessary to give a gift, don’t leave it on her doorstep and run. she might think you are a coward for not approaching her. she will think more highly of you for being a man and having the guts to talk to her.
JUST DO IT, you have nothing to lose, man!!
December 23, 2004 at 7:40 pm #73398LLXerxesMemberyes, the “lost girl trauma”.
It’s so sad. Your going wild about this girl, but your shy. Sometimes you feel like you’ve got her. You don’t wanna tell her until it’s too late. She’s stolen.*remembers…her :(* thx for the memories
December 25, 2004 at 12:54 am #73372AwesomeSauceParticipantMe and one of my friends have been talking, and we both are doubting that Shindy is really the girl I like. She’s probably just some other girl who’s lying about her name. And she never signs on anymore.
Oh, and there was another dance last Friday, but she wasn’t there. However, one girl asked me to dance, and we did. It’s a start. 🙂
I went on a bike ride today, and I found her house. BTW, gossipingrae, I was gonna give her a chocolate bar, nothing expensive. I had one with her name on it with a little ribbon, and I would have left it on her porch, rang the doorbell and ran. But I didn’t because the window on the front of her house was wide open, and there were WAY too many cars driving around; strange for a small residential area. It’s pretty cold too(heh, like that would have stopped me). So anyway, I just went back home.
And so no one has to ask, I didn’t wanna ring the doorbell and hand it to her, because I am simply too nervous, even though I know she likes me. I’ve caught her just staring at me at school, though I’m not exactly sure what that’s supposed to mean. But like I said earlier, I’ve had two people prove it to me.
December 25, 2004 at 7:28 pm #73385QuiksilverMemberA girl staring at you means that she likes you, end of story.
But yeah she might not be the girl for you so just try to forget her and focus on another person…like that girl that you danced with. Once you’ve forgotten about Shindy (that’s her name right?) and she still stares at you maybe you could approach her and ask her to stop and blah blah blah (doing this after getting a girlfriend will improve the chances of her stopping). Girls that know you’re taken usually still stare at you for a little while but gradually understand that you don’t like them…
By the way on the 24th there’s bound to be a lot of cars driving around….anywhere.
So what I’m trying to say is that you should make a choice. As in whether or not you like her or not…you could still give her the present and tell her that you “forgot” to give it to her or you “didn’t have time”. She would probably understand that.
About her not signing on anymore it’s probably because she got a new screenname. Lots of people have more than one screenname including myself.
Nervousness is hard to overcome but once you get the hang of things it’ll be easy for you to do what you want to do and do what is necessary…if you know what I mean.
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[randomness]O.o…you could’ve snuck up to the house James Bond style….or taken a fishing pole and dropping it off in front of her door…she’ll would’ve found it someday…[/randomness]December 26, 2004 at 1:59 am #73401cuteb0mberchickMemberAwesomeSauce do you even like her? if so why are you so shy? you think she going to bite you or something? geez… move your lazy ass and ask her out, do it before its too late…
December 26, 2004 at 2:17 am #73373AwesomeSauceParticipantQuote:quote:Originally posted by cuteb0mberchickAwesomeSauce do you even like her? if so why are you so shy? you think she going to bite you or something?
Have you read any of the other posts in this topic?
December 26, 2004 at 3:47 am #73396gossipingraeMemberQuote:quote:Originally posted by AwesomeSauceQuote:quote:Originally posted by cuteb0mberchickAwesomeSauce do you even like her? if so why are you so shy? you think she going to bite you or something?
Have you read any of the other posts in this topic?
no she probably hasn’t…it took me a while to read everyone’s posts so mine could make sense.
anyways, awesome, I was thinking why it would be so hard for you to do this. but, I am naturally a social butterfly and outgoing, and you are the opposite.
ps. about the chocolate bar…try leaving it in her mailbox if you don’t wanna go up to her door. that’s a start too. maybe put your phone number on it, that way if she doesn’t know who it’s from, she can call and see who you are. and if you get too shy to confess it was you, just say wrong number lol.
December 26, 2004 at 6:32 am #73386QuiksilverMemberQuote:quote:Originally posted by cuteb0mberchickAwesomeSauce do you even like her? if so why are you so shy? you think she going to bite you or something? geez… move your lazy ass and ask her out, do it before its too late…
That was certainly NOT nice. People are how they are! THey make their own decisions, get over it! He does what he wants to do okay?
December 27, 2004 at 4:11 am #73402cuteb0mberchickMemberQuote:quote:Originally posted by dragonrebornQuote:quote:Originally posted by cuteb0mberchickAwesomeSauce do you even like her? if so why are you so shy? you think she going to bite you or something? geez… move your lazy ass and ask her out, do it before its too late…
That was certainly NOT nice. People are how they are! THey make their own decisions, get over it! He does what he wants to do okay?
woah woah ok….my whole point in that post is “do it before its too late” and thats wasn’t mean…—its the same thing that my sister use to teased me “if you likes someone and you know he likes you back then don’t be afraid of getting cooties just make your first move and who knows your first move might ends up with a happy fairy tales”
December 27, 2004 at 4:18 am #73380colinMemberAwesome, you better get used to talking to girls. You will be doing it for the rest of your life. If that girl doesn’t like you, it’s okay. There are a TON of girls out there. Just don’t try to impress them with your computer knowledge. I’ve tried it, it doesn’t work;). Naw, I’m just kidding. Well, actually, I DO do that, but they just call me a genius and move the next subject, hehe. Anyways, don’t be afraid of them man. Good luck.
December 27, 2004 at 4:51 am #73374AwesomeSauceParticipantIt’s not that I’m afraid of talking to girls. It’s talking to girls I like. But I only like one.
December 27, 2004 at 7:21 am #73403cuteb0mberchickMemberso you saying you might do something wrong in font of a girl you like?
January 1, 2005 at 3:57 pm #73399LLXerxesMemberhey, that makes sense.that happened to me year or so ago. It really docks your confidence…
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